Hi Dawn,
Thanks for a nice post.
I think I know exactly where you are coming from and I have often felt the same way myself. It could well be a legacy of the old Witness mentality of "you should be doing more".
On the other hand, perhaps it is simply frustration with our own human limitations. We would all single-handedly like to put right all of the world's problems. However, we have to accept our own limitations. If we can only spare a few dollars to give to charity, then that is all we can do financially.
I lived, worked and served as an elder a while back in an extremely poor country. I could have given all my worldly wealth away in a single day, and this would have made no difference to the overall situation. What I tried to do though, and taught my kids as well, was to treat all people, no matter how poor or repulsive, with good manners, respect and simple human dignity. This surely must be the greatest lesson that Jesus taught us.
I believe that if, in the first instance, we treat all people in this manner and secondly do what we can financially, we have nothing to feel guilty about.
Eyeslice