Thanks for reading and responding...I was thinking that this topic would be Dead On Arrival but I'm happy to see your input.
Since I was raised a faithful dubbie, I'm doing a lot of new things this year- hid some candy eggs for my kid and the neighbor kids, cooking a lamb leg for a meal with the neighbors, posting on JWD while listening to Sultans of Swing.....
Choosing life- That is exactly why I want to try a church service once. Not because I believe, but because the hymns, the light coming through the stained glass after a long winter, a little bit of incomprensible latin to make you feel mysterious- Maybe I'm romanticizing it since I've never done it....
NMG- I agree. No guilt. Just trying to take back and understand my heritage. I totally understand the anger and bitterness that many on this board feel at this time of year. "This most guilt trippy nights" as someone on this board said recently
Starting Over- It may be easier for me because my wife scoffs at least as much as I do (maybe more), but I think that there is some value in reconnecting to social habits that have been ingrained in us for thousands of years.
kwr- Yes, Good Friday is all about the death of Jesus. And in general Christianity has a bit of twisted, blood thirsty logic to it. But most people don't dwell on that- they just try and take the day off (maybe leave early from work.) I'm just trying to extract the positive.