LHS123.... the situation you
have at this moment is far from being easy. There are the obvious difficulties,
that is, your baptized daughter and your husband.
Concerning
your baptized daughter, I would advise telling her that if she ever was
disfellowshipped, you would never ignore her. You could be surprised and
perhaps she will leave the truth all by herself in the coming years. In the
case of sisters, it often comes down to who she will be dating and marrying.
As
for your husband, you reported abuse. Let him know in very clear words that you
do not believe in the JW anymore and if he continues his action, you will leave
him. Despite all the advises distributed through their talks and literature,
many JW brothers rely on the idea that their wives are stuck and become
abusive. Thus, perhaps your open willingness to let him will cause drastic
changes in his behavior.
Other
issues will be every JW you know who will stop being friends... well, join
other clubs in activities you like... you will make other friends soon enough.
Family and the very close friends you count on your hand: these are the ones
that will hurt. Still, you need to confront them. I mean these ones, be in
their face and let them know loud and clear that it is them who are ending the
relationship: not you. You need to be affirmative, not aggressive. Remind them
that the only disfellowshiping reported in the bible was a couple of months and
not everyone followed that order given by Paul in one of his letters. You may
also tell them that for the great majority of their existence, JW have been
strongly opposed to disfellowshiping denouncing the catholic for this.
And in the end, I assure you, the truth will set you free. You
will have a different outlook on life as a whole. You will see and understand
differently. You will understand that there is plenty of good people doing good
things and that in the end, the fruit of the spirit is not measured by meeting
attendance and preaching hours, but how you live your everyday life and
preaching by your actions, not solely by your words.