back in 1997, if you knew how to install an operating system on a computer you could make $60 being a sys admin, of course, continuing to come up to speed, but i did everything like baptism by fire.
corporate life sucked, i liked the money and the freedom of the money, but, i'm honest now and know i'm unemployable in that type of atmosphere. i looked around the board room in my 20's when i was leading a project and saw everyone in their 40's, rich as hell, but their faces didn't have an ounce of contentment on them or pleasure with what we were doing. the light bulb went off and i got out after that.
i lightened things up where i worked though, we were the windows NT server group, so i started calling everyone my NT brothers. the rest of the company had 'issues' with using NT b/c they had a stake in Unix, so we were a necessary evil. it was funny, after a few months, we were calling each other 'brother raymond', 'brother mike'. it was brothers of the NT. i almost bought white mechanics uniforms for us to wear w/ our names as brother ____ on them until the company went topsy turvy and changed direction.(forever the performer i was and trying to keep things fun in an idiot environment...thus, probably why the elders had it out for me from a very young age b/c i was trying to keep being a witness fun.)
i was still 1/2 'in' the org at the time.
it felt phoney w/in the org in many circumstances, and there were times when it felt authentic, while those times were rare, but so were finding authentic people in there.
i now call a few close friends brothers and sisters....actually kind of have a film related frat thing i was in where once you're in you're in for life and we refer to each other as brothers. that feels authentic.
the one book study i made a few years ago they called me by my first name. i noticed it. and everyone else was brother. they know my last name. so now, i think if you're inactive you can't be addressed as brother or sister from the platform.
yep, they can read hearts b/c hearts are readable by how many hours you put down on a time slip.