I am really sorry about your mom and your son. It sucks.
Now if I could just find myself a husband like yours - he's got the right answers for everything.
for those who missed the drama, you can check it out here if you wish to www.jehovahs-witness.com/6/140100/1.ashx.
for those who know a little about my past and my mother - she had the nerve to call me today and leave an urgent message for me to call her.
i thought it was about my dad or that something bad had happened since her last comment to me was that i was dead to her, or something to that effect.
I am really sorry about your mom and your son. It sucks.
Now if I could just find myself a husband like yours - he's got the right answers for everything.
some days its so far in my past, i can hardly recall it.
this morning it was very close.
i can go along for months, sometimes years and not think about it.
Leslie - I watched my mom get beaten by my dad, and I was beaten by my dad on a regular basis.
I thought it would never happen to me. It did. My first husband put me in the hospital.
My current husband, the one I just left, was verbally abusive. He tried to intimidate me by pushing and backing me against the wall a few times. The last time I called 911, when the cops came, I told them a big lie and they left knowing that I lied.
It pissed him off but it scared him enough that he never did it again.
I am so glad to be out of there.
Your story is one I know well, I'm proud of you for being strong enough to post it.
are you obligated to forgive someone.
......if they do not ask for forgiveness.
......if they show no remorse for the transgression.
Forgiving allows you to let go and move on.
Sometimes we can be so consumed by holding onto what could have been that we miss what could be.
Good topic and some very good points made.
I think Don Henley's song says it all as far as a lost love goes.
ok, it's been awhile and i thought i'd tell you guys what happened about the family reunion situation.
to rehash... i wrote a letter telling all the jw's in my family that i wasn't going to take any crap off them anymore, that i would embarass their dumba#* if they treated me badly in anyway at funerals and reunions and the like.
i told them i was going to bring information about the idiot jw's to every family event and i was going to get in their faces if they chose to treat me badly cause i refuse to follow the fools at the wtbts.
Dawg - is that Charlie or Chuck?
I have noticed your absence and missed you.
And I am proud of you, you done good kid!
the jw's brought doctrine into a form you could tolerate, reformed the religion to allow better tolerance of those who disagree, and made prolific apology to those whom it has hurt [i know that some have been hurt that are not any longer with us, etc.
that's not my point.
], would you forgive them, and if you still believe in god, would you consider going back?
NEVER - there is nothing they could do to make up for all of the suffering and heartache they have caused by dividing families, allowing children to be molested and raped,...
don't get me started, don't even get me started.
had a new to me explanation of something i've questioned about matt 24:45-47. i, along with some here, wondered why the "slave" in matthew is singular when the wtbts says it has to be a "class" because no one person could live long enough to be the slave.
personally, i've wondered why it couldn't be each person individually, but the d.o.
says there is precedent.
Good job bonnzo!
Hey - did I ever mention that I hate these lying scripture twisting bastards?
Well I do.
search this title: jehovah's witnesses silentlambs - dallason you tube.. why can't these types of broadcasts be nationwide?.
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That was strong - they covered a lot of info in a short period of time.
They can't hide forever.
... and what does the lady in the movie do?
she opens the door.. why are movie characters so stupid?.
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If she didn't open the door there would be no movie.
the worst part of the "1995 generation change"- implementation was for me personaly the watchtower study-article defining the new (or changed) doctrine.
the article mentioned that rank & file witness "thought" that the generation was related to 1914 because they want it so.
it hurted me deeply and i am still agry (12 years later!)..
Bastards.