Thanks JD and Wobble...I am sure that I am not alone with being "stuck" in my old JW thinking about the subject of the Trinity. I still have some issues with the actual Trinity doctrine, but I am starting to lean towards something more akin to the Trinity. It just is too difficult to "buy" the JW argument as to Jesus being an archangel and the Holy Spirit being an inanimate object that is more like electricity than anything else.
I know that the Trinity apologists see no other answer than the Trinity as defined by the early church fathers. I also know that many who are now atheist or agnostic would feel my question to be nonsense in the first place.
I would still like to hear from the nontrinitarians such as Joseph Malik, to get the opposing explanation to the personage or identity of the Holy Spirit. I know that the gender of the personal pronoun in John 14:26 can be argued that is mistranslated and should be neutral (it). I would like to hear how we can "grieve" something that is without personality or nothing more than an active force sent by God. Thanks all...