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  My daughter is in the hospital .......... it's kind of weird not to pray

  by AWAKE&WATCHING in

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  my daughter shannon is 20 weeks pregnant.

  the placenta is pulling loose and she has some bleeding.

  the doc seems confidant that both she and the baby will be fine.she found out this week that it is a boy.

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  Bobbi

  I screamed out loud when I read your post!!!!
  
  Para and I are so happy things are ok. Crazy how much pain our bodies go thur
  to have children and we forget so quickly when we see the baby.
  
  If you can, get her to the pool. The water will help take the weight off and
  make her more comfortable, at least while in the pool. It can also help with
  any "intestinal" issues associated with have a bowling ball crowding all your
  organs.
  
  So very happy all is well.
  
  Bobbi
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  Anyone who joined here in the last 6 months post here

  by WT=watchtrouble in

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  i thought it would be interesting to see just how many people have climbed aboard jwd within the last 6 months.

  it will give us an indication on how many people are actually coming away from the borg.. i may not be replying all the time but will pop in every day of so.. lets keep this thread going and use it to welcome new ones.

  may i be the first to say welcome.

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  Bobbi

  July'07
  
  Bobbi
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  My daughter is in the hospital .......... it's kind of weird not to pray

  by AWAKE&WATCHING in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  my daughter shannon is 20 weeks pregnant.

  the placenta is pulling loose and she has some bleeding.

  the doc seems confidant that both she and the baby will be fine.she found out this week that it is a boy.

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  Bobbi

  Instead of focusing on the very scary stuff, try giving your daughter short term goals.
  
  Every day/week she stays pregnant is good for the baby. It is amazing how much a fetus develops from
  week to week. I also believe (too tired to look this up right now) that baby's do most of thier growing
  in the last few months. So The major stuff is already done. Not sure if your daughter likes details,
  but when I was worried about my last baby, I found it reassuring to research what was happening each week
  so I could mentally cheer him on. 24 weeks is young, yes, but every week in utero gives him a better chance.
  
  And yes she may go stir crazy, I hope she likes to read.
  
  My prayers are with her and the baby.
  
  Bobbi
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  *primal screaming*

  by Bobbi in

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  2. experiences

  ok i am in the middle of a dilemma.

  after para spoke to his parents about us leaving the organization, they decided not to associate with us.

  agree to not narc us out to the elders.

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  Bobbi

  OK I am in the middle of a dilemma.
  
  After Para spoke to his parents about us leaving the Organization, they decided not to associate with us. They did
  agree to not narc us out to the elders. However one of them must have told Para's brother JXXX because he started ranting
  about us hating witnesses and not wanting anything to do with witnesses even if they are family.
  
  We found out about this because someone emailed me to ask what was going on. This person used to be one of my best friends
  and I had been avoiding telling her I was not going to be a witness anymore. Needless to say my cover was blown.
  
  Para's brother and parents have not contacted us in about 2.5 months. My oldest son asked me "Why do (Para's parents) hate me?"
  My middle son wants to know when he is going to uncle JXXX's house. My baby freaks every time I drive near where the grandparents
  live and screams "Nana" over and over again.
  
  
  Then, this past weekend, JXXX sends a text message to Para saying he got a new car and wants to show it to him. No, sorry we havent'
  tried to talk to you, no how have you been.
  
  Para thinks this change is because we delivered an anniversary card to his parents. I guess we aren't satans minions after all.
  
  My angst is this.....
  
  Who the f*$k do they think they are? They have hurt three little children beyond repair. They have alienated Para and myself.
  
  Do I allow myself to let them back into my life? And if Para asks me to, what should I do?
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  YOU'VE GOT 10 MINUTES TO HELP ME MAKE A DECISION!

  by journey-on in

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  i've had a busy week.

  out of town guests and noisy kiddos all over the place.

  everybody has left.

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  Bobbi

  Bubbles and a romance novel, something really trashy.
  
  Bobbi
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  Orangefatcat's Holiday Wishes

  by orangefatcat in

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  gee it has been quite a while since i have posted and been away from the board.

  i am still very much alive and maybe kicking but just abit.. really though i wanted everyone of jwd to know that i will be thinking of you over the holiday season.

  many of you have exchanged cards with me for several years.

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  Bobbi

  I was thinking about you today and hoping all was well. Merry Christmas from Para and I.
  
  Bobbi
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  Has Anyone Recieved Their Secret Santa Gifts?

  by Nosferatu in

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  2. friends

  oh my god!!!

  a thread that isn't about rr!

  but seriously, has anybody recieved their gifts yet?.

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  Bobbi

  Para and I got ours tonight!!!! It was mistakenly delivered to a neighbours house and because he knew me and he knew the UPS guy they let him hold it for us. He brought it down to us just a few minutes ago...
  
  
  Thank you Dazed and Confused for the gorgeous musical ornament!! It has the year on it so we will always remember our first christmas as a family...
  
  
  
  
  
  
  Stacey
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  Has Anyone Recieved Their Secret Santa Gifts?

  by Nosferatu in

  1. jw
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  oh my god!!!

  a thread that isn't about rr!

  but seriously, has anybody recieved their gifts yet?.

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  Bobbi

  Yes Noni it is your secret santa gift. Sorry about the confusion!! LOL someone should post hints on how to do this right!
  
  Bobbi
  
  
  PS: My cats loved the ribbon too.
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  Personal Development Milestone

  by Mincan in

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  2. friends

  here's where i'm at presently, this has happened within the last two weeks and seems to get stronger.. - i see my life more objectively, and it doesn't bother me much.. - i don't care to read about religion, what's wrong with it, etc (i know it is and i don't feel that i need to keep preoccupying my mind with it).

  - i don't feel any anger or hostility towards jws or the wts in particular.. - i don't feel like my life was stolen from me, cause, you know, i was there, i lived it.

  (as i've mentioned before, lived it pretty damn well i have to admit compared with billions of other humans).

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  Bobbi

  Wonderful, I am so proud of you.
  
  Bobbi
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  Baby GIRL names that start with "J"

  by purplesofa in

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  2. friends

  my daughter is still not decided on a baby name.

  she wants the name to start with a j...... .

  do you all have any suggestions, please?

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  Bobbi

  Jesse Alison
  
  That was my grandmothers name. Jesse was her grandfathers name and because she was the first
  child she got it.
  
  The family called her "Al" most of her life except her sisters who could be heard shouting
  "Jesse Alison, you are a cheat!" but that was only during a card game after a few drinks.
  
  Josephine Abigail
  Jada Abigail
  
  
  Bobbi ( who was name Anastasia but had it shortened to Stacey because her parents thought the
  name was too long for such a tiny (5lb) baby.