ya...she must be out mentally.....or she would just go back and be hardcore... and prob never listen to you again and shun the hell out of everyone she is "told to"......
however i have had a similar thought about my jw wife and the few rules she breaks, esp the not shunning my son, she likes r-rated movies...but i will not mention them because then should would probably change her tune......
also had the same thought about some of my dub friends.......i did a thread about it some time ago that says "they are just like us"....in that there are sooo many things they do not believe either, they just dont talk about it....and i like to point out these when i can...i enjoyed telling one she better keep her thoughts to herself or she could be DFd as an apostate if she kept stating her true opinion......they are not allowed.......oompa
funny how so many believe things they THINK are taught or not taught and often they are way off base....they do not even know they are apostates!!