kinda funny actually.....btw, disfellowship means they are excommunicated from the jw faith and nobody including their family is to speak to them until they repent and come back into the faith......the funny part is that though few rarely marry out of the faith....TONS fool around and get kicked out....so you may want to just get her in the sack or back seat or whatever!.....
dgp...i do have a relative who married out and have had a great marriage for 25 years!....the husband is totally non-religious and does not mind all her meetings and such......if you could deal with it, and she loves you, you might could make that offer.....let her know you would never oppose her right to her own faith...........