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  Judah Ben Schroeder - where is he now????

  by dreamgolfer in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  did he ever get his law degree (old thread) does he practice law?.

  or did he take over his in-laws sell cars to the wtbts dealership?.

  what happened to the book ?.

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  AnneB

  Is his name a patronymic, or is Ben short for Benjamin?

  Ben, as in "Son of". Judah Ben Schroeder = Judah, son of Schroeder.

  Nothing prideful there, eh?
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  607 and 1914

  by snowbird in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  those are just symbols that indicate a numerical value, but to me, they mean much more than that.. my clock showed 6:07 as the time a few minutes ago, and i immediately thought of 607 bce.. a friend's address is 1914 neighbor road - guess what comes to mind.. crazy, isn't it?.

  lol..

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  I recently addressed a letter to PO Box 1915. Guess what I thought of?
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  The Good Food Thread

  by MrsCedars in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  my inspiration comes from the ingredients i have at hand, very often leftovers, and also home grown produce, herbs and spices.

  i still have a lot to learn, but i have come a long way since i first started cooking for mr cedars.. i think the first recipe on this thread should by the one that oodad has posted on other thread.... .

  shrimp scampi.

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  There are cooking boards for this kind of thing.
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  Help for a father of two young JW's

  by never a jw in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  i have never been a jw, but my wife, two brothers and their wives and children are.

  also, most of my wife's brothers and sisters are jw's.

  since i have a close relationship with both my family and my wife's family you can deduce that most of my friends and associations are with jw's.

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  Make your daughter independent of the Witnesses: encourage her to go to college or university, to train for a career, to make life choices for herself that do not involve WT. I realize this may be difficult now that she has decided to join the organization, but she's young, and being part of a "divided" family may be a saving grace, she can "blame" you if any JW objects! :)

  Desensitize: find ways to speak about disfellowshipping as though it were a "normal" part of living, teach her that at some point individuals will clash, and the result may be that those with power (not authority!) try to cause unbearable shame in efforts to control the life of another. Remind her that no human is her judge, that when (not if, but when) it happens to her, that she should stand firm (a WT expression), never relinquish control of her life to another human, and that you will support her no matter what anyone thinks, says, or does to mar her reputation. If you start now, while she is only 16, your daughter may not feel as alone as Elders will want her to feel if she should happen to be scrutinized in the future.

  Additionally, if you have the wherewithal, make it clear to her and to any others that under no circumstances will you allow your daughter to be "counseled" without you being present, and that includes judicial matters. This is your legal right since she is not of age to be considered a legal adult. If you've been reading this board for any length of time you may already know of the horror stories, the intimidation, the extremely intimate and personal questions that are often and inappropriately asked during these sessions. Make no mistake; there is no such thing as an unintentional session; if a JW gets called in to talk with the brothers there will be intimidation and manipulation, no matter what the issue or how removed from it she may be. Train your daughter to say that she must get permission from her father before she is allowed to meet in closed session. (That one makes sense in a non-JW situation as well.)

  If possible, slowly build the notion that being involved with JW's is an open-exit choice, that just as she made the choice to join, she can make the choice to leave whenever she finds that her views and theirs are no longer compatible. Don't let WT be the only one "indoctrinating" her on that point! The main message here is that she directs her life, that you are there to assist her until she reaches full maturity, and that there is no shame in trying out various options then letting them go when she finds they no longer fit.

  The best hope you have is that she is still young and has lots of changes left to go through. The goal here is to let her know, in advance, that you are there to love and support her as she learns to stand on her own two feet. If she has that fixed in the back of her mind I doubt that she will put up with WT for the long haul.

  Best wishes,

  AnneB
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  "You are so Focussed on The Past that you can't see the Blessings in front of your Eyes!"

  by BluesBrother in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  that statement has been made to me recently - i think it is a sound-bite from the new dvd about jerusalem's fall.. hmm.. i need to reflect on a reply .

  several thoughts come to mind but it has to be constructive and form a reasoned argument rather than a smart answer.. what blessings?

  are we unreasonably obsessed with the past?

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  Why do you want to answer an unreasoning comment with a constructive statement? Isn't that the same as casting pearls before swine?
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  It happened!!!! my first HOLE in ONE!!!!

  by dreamgolfer in

  1. social
  2. humour

  july 4th 2012 - 201 yards par 3 with my big driver.

  i can die happy!.

  i got mine!.

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  You know what I like about your post? That you said "My first...". Great attitude!

  Congrats! from AnneB
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  To the Household of God, Israel, and Those Who God With...

  by AGuest in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  the greatest of love and peace to you all.

  on another thread i posted what i stated was my last post.

  that wasn't true; this is my last post on jwn.

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  Vaya con Dios (as I know you will).

  Much love from AnneB
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  How do I hear/feel God?

  by doinmypart in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  this is a serious question.. i know people that hear/feel god (and see postings about people's experiences), but i have not experienced this.

  i have never heard anything audibly (or otherwise) nor "felt" anything inwardly.. i've prayed, read, quieted my thoughts, etc...but still nothing..

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  The Humbling of Anthony

  by Duncan in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i didn’t really care for anthony very much.

  at the time of this story he was 13 or 14 years old, a clever and precocious kid down the hall.

  he was extremely zealous about the truth and took it, and himself, very seriously.

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  Anthony had that precious "theocratic" quality, freeness of speech.

  He'll be fine.
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  Woman jumps into pool during Long Beach DC!

  by puffthedragon in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  http://youtu.be/dht3cedgg6e.

  watch the right hand side of the screen.. .

  i am trying to imbed it but can't make it work.

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  AnneB

  She probably had to sit through one too many summer conventions! Then the thought came: "I wonder if I could..."