Primitive is right about finely crafting articles around their other dogma. Let me give you some random thoughts, please.
If you decide to have kids, I can guarantee you that he will demand they become baptized as a Witness. That is what he is programmed to do.
Now last night I watched the Daily Show and Jon had a guest that talked about how to tell the character of an individual and how in the old days it was just what religion you were. In the 21st century people are turning away from that. People are now looking at the "Moral Compass" of an individual. Personally I think that is a much better choice.
So it seems that there is this theocratic warfare going on in many religions. I was exposed to it recently. I was asked to lie to some institution. I turned it down and realized that in this faith (guess which one) it was not ok to lie, but it is ok to ask someone else to lie on your behalf. That in itself I think is worse than doing your own dirty deed.
Now combine what I have learned last week to what I have discovered here in the last 6 months, I see a slipery slope here.
The baptized witness have only one purpose in life-to recruit. More witnesses, more drones to work the streets for free. And for what purpose? Money. Jehovah is a real estate corp. It has nothing to do with salvation. The bible tells you this, and yet the witnesses ignore that part. What worries me the most is that they put the corporation ahead of their spouses and their kids (also known as df and shunning). If you have children and your relationship is all about Jehovah and you are not interested in the cult, you are doomed to be just a slave. If that is ok, then there is nothing to worry about.
But if you cherish your freedom and independance, you might have a problem. I was never one so my perspective is somewhat slanted, but I believe you have to accept him as he is and you will be assimilated to their lifestyle. You will no longer be able to think for yourself.
In a marraige, you must be like minded-that is be of the same ideology. If you are at opposite ends, then I would never bring kids into this quagmire. Some here seem to be ok, but most here are living a nightmare.
Not sure if any of my rambling helps, but I do wish you all the best. My kids are 17 and 12. The 12 year old is driving me nuts! Keeps me on my toes. Good luck to you in your decision.