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  Confused!! Help!!

  by BigBloomerz in

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  2. relationships

  ok so here goes...ive fallen for a guy, who seems perfect for me, everything ive ever wanted in a man, kind, sensitive, caring and reliable.

  only problem is, he is not a jw and i sort of am, sort of meaning, i was brought up in the truth i have gone through rebelious stages and just passed them off as wanting to experience, i nearly married a jw but the night before the wedding he called it off and said he wasnt ready (we had sleot with each other beforehand, so he prob didnt see the point in going ahead anymore!

  got what he had wanted!

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  Just a little update.. Everything is still going great and we are getting married in November this year Thanks to everyone for the support and helping me through that time. I'll be staying on here to keep getting the support for sure.

  Love to all xx
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  Remember the term: Heavy petting.

  by odie67 in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i guess that would include tongue kissing, touching etc....the things two people do when they dig each other.

  heavy petting was a huge no no!.

  i remember sitting in front of three elders as a teenager spilling my guts about how i kissed this boy.

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  I HATE the term Heavy Petting, it brings back so many bad memories.I remember having a judicial comittee and having to explain EVERY single detail about what i had done, what he had done... it was from then on i thought "omg these are just perverts" I feel so sorry for any youngster or even older person having to go through that experience, im sure the elders got turned on by it, they sure didnt get that sort of action at home! lol
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  How do I get over my Family treating me Like an Outcast

  by moonpie in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  hello, i've been disfellowshipped for almost six years and it's still hard not being able to communicate with them.

  i talk to my mom once a week, but my dad won't pick up the phone to talk to me.

  i have 3 brothers and 6 sisters.

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  BigBloomerz

  Hi Moonpie, welcome to the board.

  I myself am in the same situation as you, i dissasociated myself last year and my 3 elder brothers do not talk to me because of this, apart from the occasional email from my eldest brother to make sure im alive, I too wish that i could make them see sense, but all of us here know what its like in that religion/environment and how hard it is to see sense and leave.

  I pray that you get through this difficult time and that your family do realise. But also remember that there are so many other people here that are going through the same thing and we are here to help and support each other. xx
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  What a weekend and today there's cheese-cake. Happy Days

  by LouBelle in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  well i thought i was going to have a very subdued birthday as i didn't plan anything.

  i was tired of always being the one running around on my birthday so this weekend nudda.

  my friends took me out to a little greek restaurant for dinner - there were 2 other birthdays being celebrated, everyone was buying each other drinks and feeding the birthday people shots of uzzo, metzipah (or something like that) apricots soaked in something very close to satans water!!!

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  Mmmm Scrummy cakes! Happy Birthday
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  hobbies

  by Hortensia in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  so i tried to find the right category for hobbies, but there doesn't seem to be one.

  i just wanted to let you knitters know that i have listed a few hard-to-find norwegian knitting pattern magazines on ebay - i think there are some knitters here!

  i think i'm in the midst of changing hobbies.

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  I tried knitting but couldnt get the hang of it, my mum used to crochet balnks for everyone who was expecting a baby in the KHall. I do cross stitch now for relaxtion and also i read a lot of girly fiction, me and my other half have also taken up kite flying, well when its windy anyway I loved cycling when i was younger, altho due to living in an upstairs maisonette i dont have anywhere to put a bike! My other part time hobby at the moment is wedding planning hehe.
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  Judicial Committee - BBoard May Be Facing One Sooner Than He Thinks ...

  by BBOARD in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i feel a jc is coming for me soon.

  here is just a snippet of some of my missed opportunities (girl's names have been abbreivaited for obvious reasons):.

  9th grade cm, 10th grade gk, 11th grade - gj.

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  Just leave it all now, easier that way, then you dont get chance to go to a JC!
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  Prince just says NO!!

  by Samuel Thorsen in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  81 (yes, eighty one) norwegian pop and rock singers/bands want to celebrate the 50 th birthday of their great music idol prince with a cd-box containing one prince cover tune from each one of them.. however prince does not think this is a good idea and he has throu his lawyers stopped the project because it containes "unautorized arrangements"..... you can read it in the norwegian paper here... http://www.dagbladet.no/kultur/2008/04/21/533175.html.

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  I hated the elders, expecially sitting in front of them at a judicial comitee talking about my sex life. lol.
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  Remember "The Truman Show"?

  by changeling in

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  I remember watching The Truman Show when it first was released, i cried at most of it, and after reading your post decided to watch it again (i have it on dvd) And cried even more, i totally understand what you mean. He was trapped and couldnt understand or find a way out of it all, until someone helped him along the way.
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  Did being a JW lady give you low self esteem because of dating?

  by TreadClimberMaster in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  i remember the years that i was a witness and dating was so stressful!

  i really never dated, because i truly believed that dating was reserved for marriage purposes only.

  i used to think i could never attain or hope to attain to the level of perfection that certain "brothers" wanted.

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  I did have feelings like you, i always thought i would never be good enough for a man in the organization, mainly because i wasnt that spiritual myself, i never wanted to pioneer, i wanted a career, i wanted a full time job and i wanted money.

  I did date a few guys, i even got engaged to one and he dumped me the night before ur wedding saying he wasnt spiritually ready for a wife. I had my heartbroken because of people thinking they also werent worthy enough.

  I now am very happy, im engaged to a lovely man and we have a fab life together, we are getting married in November of this year.

  Life is definitly better out of the JW organization.
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  Strictly Come Dancing

  by BigBloomerz in

  1. social
  2. entertainment

  strictly come dancing.

  does anybody in the uk or even elsewhere watch this program?

  i know they have dancing with the stars in the usa, which has 2 of the same judges on, len and bruno, apparently they are flying out and back every week for the different shows, what hectic lifestyles!.

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  Strictly Come Dancing

  Does anybody in the UK or even elsewhere watch this program? i know they have Dancing with the stars in the USA, which has 2 of the same Judges on, Len and Bruno, apparently they are flying out and back every week for the different shows, what hectic lifestyles!

  Who are your favourites? What do you think of this weeks show? Do you agree with the judges scores and final decision?

  BB