At one point I was the PO in a congregation. Used to meet up with the CO on Tuesday afternoon so he could go over the cards and count time. He was new to our cong and seemed like he had a good sense of humor so when we parted I jokingly asked if he had a ring I should kiss he laughed and turned around and pointed to his ass. At the time I thought it was funny and still do but now I see the reality of it.
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