Secret,
I've always wondered if I knew then what I know now......I think I still would have married my JW husband. Granted when i met him he had been inactive for 2-3 years. Our life is wonderful. That is until the subject comes up. My inlaws are great people but they will never change. The only issue that has ever been a sore subject is this. My advice would be to not persue it until he has completely made up his mind only because you have a child. The arguments we've had on the subject have been heart wrenching and definately not something I would want a child to be involved in. I would not expose my child to a group of people with their 2 witness rule.
also be weary of the reasons why he would want to marry. There are still days that i wonder if my husband married me more out of love than to appease his parents because we were "living in sin". Ridiculous I know. But those are the facts. I know that he loves me as much as I love him and that he married me for those reasons, but doubt is hard to live with.
good luck to you.
Stay on this board, it can be a life saver if not sanity saver
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