My husband never wanted to, he felt like it was still playing by their rules. I felt the need to just cut the ties nice and clean. But you are still supposed to get a shepherding call once a year, DA or DF. So they really never leave you alone, just keep popping up out of the blue.
momzcrazy
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What good would a DA letter do?
by dogon ini have long thought of doing this, but could never see any good it would do except make me feel good for a few seconds.
i also feel that when you do this you let them win.
they always say that we told you so, or now he is gone and our congregation is clean bla bla bla.
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/////// Rock and Roll Heaven \\\\\\\
by FlyingHighNow inthis is the dead thread.
pay tribute to those who've gone towards the light.
walked on the wind..... shannon, lead singer for blind melon.
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When a little pissed. . .
by LouBelle ini like to communicate, it's true, i love everyone and i want them to know.
i have had a most successful dinner party, am slightly sloshed, am finishing off bar 1 sauce and ice cream.
mmm talk to me :)
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momzcrazy
I am a lot pissed.
I miss you LouLou!!!! Come to Tennessee and see me! (I feel the same way not pissed)
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What do you think of Serial killers who find God and repentence?
by Witness 007 inson of sam killer david berkowitz smiled as new york cops led him to jail after killing 6 and injuring 7....the yorkshire ripper stuart sutcliffe claims to be studying with jehovahs witnesses in the mental ward prison in britain.
{13 killed and 7 injured} ...so do you think they are genuine or just looking to forgive themselves?
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momzcrazy
When I was growing up my dad studied with several inmates at Point of the Mountain prison in Utah. One progressed to baptism. My dad, along with others, testified at his parole hearing as to his "new personality". He was a huge part of our lives as small kids. You know, taken under my dad's wing and all. Then one day his Aid book and other publications were on our front step. He had attempted to rape a young sister and was sent back to prison.
That was a rapist, not a serial killer.
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What do you think of Serial killers who find God and repentence?
by Witness 007 inson of sam killer david berkowitz smiled as new york cops led him to jail after killing 6 and injuring 7....the yorkshire ripper stuart sutcliffe claims to be studying with jehovahs witnesses in the mental ward prison in britain.
{13 killed and 7 injured} ...so do you think they are genuine or just looking to forgive themselves?
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momzcrazy
I don't think they should be alive long enough to find God and repentence.
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my kid, and cristmas
by DaCheech ini have been able to tell my kids that since we are jw's we don't do cristmas.. to help the kid, we are giving presents every other week until the seasons over, to make them feel good about themselves.. the other day, she starts humming "jingle bell rock".
i told the kid not to do it, since we jws don't do cristmas.. the response was "the songs not about cristmas, but about jingling and rocking".. what should i do really?.
i'm trying to instill things like: "as jws we dont do this and that".
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momzcrazy
Make her sing We're Jehovah's Witnesses like we had to if we got caught singing a Christmas carol.
Also, if she has worldly friends, tell her the Society says that they are bad association and are going to be killed in Armageddon. Then ask her to look in the Bible for what makes them so bad. This works well for any neighbors, etc, who are good people. We couldn't find things in the Bible to justify killing these people. But I said, "Well, the Society says we can't be friends with them anyway".
No matter what it is, say, "The Society of GB says we can't do it. I can't find that rule in the Bible, but they say we can't, so we can't." Blame everything on the GB and Society.
Worked like a charm with my kids.
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/////// Rock and Roll Heaven \\\\\\\
by FlyingHighNow inthis is the dead thread.
pay tribute to those who've gone towards the light.
walked on the wind..... shannon, lead singer for blind melon.
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momzcrazy
To sweet Leon, The Mad Hatter,who never could remember my name!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M1aOYr-2KGw
And to those who went before him.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGPIg0j_fOY
And Dime of course. Have a cocktail for me baby.
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I'm being officially disfellowshipped today
by Newborn in12-12-2008. .
dear friends, .
care to celebrate with me?.
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Give me a reason not to have an affair/one night stand
by mtsgrad ini am extremely close to having an affair.
let me give you some details.. been married for 8 years.
not had any relations for 7. faded 3 years ago.. in middle of getting divorced.
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momzcrazy
They are at the gym. And pubs. And the market. And work.
But do your wife a favor and go to their houses, not yours!
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What kind of difference has JWD made in your life?
by JimmyPage ini feel fortunate that there is already a built-in online community i can go to where people can relate to having been a jw and where it's okay to express your true feelings about that.
i'm thinking it must have been much more difficult a decade ago.
so what kind of impact has this website had on your life?
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momzcrazy
It was my landing place when I was leaving.