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  part II - my JW boyfriend wants reinstatement. What do i do

  by un_girl_ch in

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  i posted this at the end of worldlygirl's question, but i think it got bared into so many posts...

  hi there, i am pretty much in the same situation here as the worldly girl(minus the children).

  my boyfriend is an ex jw his ex wife cheated on him they divorced.

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  un_girl_ch

  Hi guys,

  We are no longer sexual active (not that we were for a very long period anyways) and we never actually lived together - we are currently (for the past month and half) living in different countries (for 6 months only) - but do see each other every 2 weeks for at list 3 days consecutives. Where I do stay at his place or he stays at mine.

  I the last meeting he had with his Elders - I know that he made clear that he does not want to loose me. That is when the "sugested" that I should meet them...

  I am off to see him in a weeks time - and I know he will ask me to meet his elders...
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  part II - my JW boyfriend wants reinstatement. What do i do

  by un_girl_ch in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  i posted this at the end of worldlygirl's question, but i think it got bared into so many posts...

  hi there, i am pretty much in the same situation here as the worldly girl(minus the children).

  my boyfriend is an ex jw his ex wife cheated on him they divorced.

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  un_girl_ch

  Hi Guys, Thanks for the advice - I will not marry him if he returns to his religion. But I would like to try and see if I can inflict some critical thinking into him. Yesterday I sent him about 10 e-mails with info in regards to the UN thing... he has not got back to me yet... but I guess the material will go straight into the Elders hands... and boy... I am not really keen in meeting them ... Any advice in regards to that please?? Many thanks once again....
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  part II - my JW boyfriend wants reinstatement. What do i do

  by un_girl_ch in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  i posted this at the end of worldlygirl's question, but i think it got bared into so many posts...

  hi there, i am pretty much in the same situation here as the worldly girl(minus the children).

  my boyfriend is an ex jw his ex wife cheated on him they divorced.

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  un_girl_ch

  I posted this at the end of worldlygirl's question, but I think it got bared into so many posts... Hi there, I am pretty much in the same situation here as the Worldly girl(minus the children). My boyfriend is an ex JW – His ex wife cheated on him – they divorced. Then after sometime he started seen a non jw girl and got disfellowshipped for that and is family hasn’t spoken to him in 7 years. It is a very hard and difficult situation; I have been researching a lot about the cult and trying to ask inquisitive questions to get him to think critically… We have been together for 6 months and we love each other very much. He has now started attending his meetings and wants to be re-instated. The problem is that I have no religion and neither have a desirer of having one, but the elders in his congregation already sent the message that they want to meet me, hence asap… To top it up, I work for one of the UN agencies… Help…
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  my JW boyfriend wants reinstatement. What do i do

  by worldly girl81 in

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  for the past 5 months i have been in a wonderful relationship.

  he and i had started out as friends a few years ago, but realized that we were attracted to each other while he was going through his divorce earlier this year.

  he and his now ex wife are both jws .

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  un_girl_ch

  Hi there, I am pretty much in the same situation here as the Wordily girl(minus the children). My boyfriend is an ex JW – His ex wife cheated on him – they divorced. Then after sometime he started seen a non jw girl and got disfellowshipped for that and is family hasn’t spoken to him in 7 years. It is a very hard and difficult situation; I have been researching a lot about the cult and trying to ask inquisitive questions to get him to think critically… We have been together for 6 months and we love each other very much. The problem is that he started attending his meetings and wants to be re-instated. The problem is that I have no religion and neither have a desirer of having one, but the elders in his congregation already sent the message that they want to meet me, hence asap… To top it up, I work for one of the UN agencies… Help…