Posts by FreudianSlip

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I Hate This Game!

by Aeiouy in

aaaaaaarrrrrrrrrgggghghghghghghhhhh!.

i'm slightly frustrated.

about a month ago, i lost the most amazing girl i've ever known.

FreudianSlip

Why don't you females want a guy who treats you like you're a queen?

Why do guys always say this? Maybe she's just not that into you anymore. Maybe it had nothing to do with how "nice" or "mean" you were.

They want you to call once, then not call for a few days, then they start to miss you, then they wonder why you haven't called, then they think they might be losing you, then they wonder if you've found another gf, and it's torture, and then you call and it's wonderful.

We do experience those emotions pretty much like you laid it out, but if a guy did that deliberately as a manipulative tool, most women would not be okay with that.

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Just because this chick didn't appreciate you doesn't mean all women are the same. I love a man that showers me with attention. I never tire of it.

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guys do you do this girl thing?...

by highdose in

jw
friends

i've recently met someone and we spent all last evening chatting on the phone.

this morning comes, i text him and get no responce.

a few hours go by and i start thinking that hes obviously gone off me, i will never find anyone, must be totaly unattractive and repluse the opposite sex etc etc...basicaly start thinking myself into a depression.. then i get a text midday... hes phone had run out of battery(!

FreudianSlip

highdose-

I'm always like that. I suffocate the life out of most men. I always think he should be happy such a beautiful, intelligent woman digs him so much.

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if you had a choice on the method of your death

by John Doe in

jw
friends

what would you choose?.

FreudianSlip

In my sleep, painlessly, of old age.

48

College

by AllTimeJeff in

jw
friends

i know i have threatened to do this before, like when i first left.

but i am thinking of going to college.

this time, i feel determined.

FreudianSlip

bttt, everyone needs reminders

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Pick and Choose your beliefs

by lancelink in

jw
friends

wow, my head is still spinning.

let me start from the beginning.. i got baptized in 1978, my sister in 1982. she ended up getting df'ed for fornication after one year (going out and living with a guy at 18 years old).. so according the the org.

belief system, there has been hardly any contact with her all these years.. ok, now fast forward, my wife and i da'ed ourselves one year ago.. now i find out that my dad keeps in contact with my dfed sister, yet he ignores my family and my other two sisters (who never became witnesses, they say all the dysfunction over the years).. i find it funny how he picks and chooses what to believe.. because i have left the jw's,,,, i'm basically nobody.. but my sister who left in a blaze of glory by smoking, fornicating, and turning her back on the org.

FreudianSlip

lance-

There is an unspoken rule that those that DA are worse than those who get DF'ed. Stupid, but true.

Although I got kicked for fornicating, I married the guy and we've been together for the past 9 years. Doesn't that stand for anything? I don't lie (often) or steal and I try to live by the Golden Rule. It doesn't matter that I live a good and moral life. My elder father was disfellowshipped after me (and subsequently reinstated) for adultery and he STILL wouldn't talk to me! What he did was worse than me!

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Which Websites Helped You Leave the WT?

by FreudianSlip in

the website that finally opened my eyes to the wt's lies was this one: http://www.towerwatch.com/testimonies/judicial_committee_meeting.htm.

it is an excellent read.

i even wrote to the guy, james caputo, to show appreciation for his courage to post his story on the www all those years ago when there weren't yet a ton of ex-jw sites.

FreudianSlip

The website that finally opened my eyes to the WT's lies was this one: http://www.towerwatch.com/Testimonies/judicial_committee_meeting.htm

It is an EXCELLENT read. I even wrote to the guy, James Caputo, to show appreciation for his courage to post his story on the WWW all those years ago when there weren't yet a ton of ex-JW sites. He's brilliant. This site laid the foundation for my exit. I practically owe him my life!

I think if anyone has a doubting family member, this would be a great read for them.

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OMG!!! Last night I discovered I have a SUPER POWER!!! O_O

by Elsewhere in

jw
friends

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last night i was at a bar where they were hosting an art show.. while there i discovered that i have the amazing ability to turn totally invisible to bar tenders!

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FreudianSlip

I actually do have hairy man boobs..

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OMG!!! Last night I discovered I have a SUPER POWER!!! O_O

by Elsewhere in

jw
friends

.

last night i was at a bar where they were hosting an art show.. while there i discovered that i have the amazing ability to turn totally invisible to bar tenders!

.

FreudianSlip

I love hairy man boobs..

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OMG!!! Last night I discovered I have a SUPER POWER!!! O_O

by Elsewhere in

jw
friends

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last night i was at a bar where they were hosting an art show.. while there i discovered that i have the amazing ability to turn totally invisible to bar tenders!

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FreudianSlip

Push your boobs out. Works for me!!

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Does anyone else have a morbid obsession?

by bulgogiboy in

i have to admit to having developed a very strong obsession with my own mortality in recent years, since breaking free from jw doctrine.

i think about death a lot, and if i really sit and think about it hard, i can freak myself out big time!

i dont want to think about it, and outwardly its not apparent to other people, but it is something that seems to pervade my thinking, something that haunts me.. perhaps i should be excited, because i realise that on the whole what i came to believe as a jw was fabricated, and maybe there is an amazing afterlife to experience, but at the same time i do tend to agree with jws about death being the end, i just dont agree with the whole resurrection claim they add on to it.. i have known two people who were temporarily 'dead' on the operating table, one of whom was dead for several minutes(one of these people is a friend who shrugs it off like it was nothing!).

FreudianSlip

sex comes from obsession? how so?

Two people obsessing about each other..?