Welcome Fern and I hope we get to know you better soon
Velvet
fern welcome to jwd!!!.
may your stay be a long and eventful one.
i too am a newly associated one so glad to have you on board.
Welcome Fern and I hope we get to know you better soon
Velvet
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20080722/ap_on_en_tv/obit_getty rip sweet lady..... estelle getty of 'golden girls' dies at age 84 .
by bob thomas, associated press writer 4 minutes ago .
los angeles - estelle getty, the diminutive actress who spent 40 years struggling for success before landing a role of a lifetime in 1985 as the sarcastic octogenarian sophia on tv's "the golden girls," has died.
She was very funny and a great character actress. I am so sad she is gone, I didn't realize she had dementia, that must be something fairly recent.
Velvet
yesterday, my aunt was talking to one of my siblings about how things have been changing in our [ex] congregation for the 'better'.. she mentioned how a new circuit overseer has come in and is shaking things up.
the co appointed a ministerial servant (someone, the po & secretary didn't like and i know would never have voluntarily suggested appointment) and some of the 'brothers' that have had no 'responsibility' ever are being given #4 talks.
she also mentioned that the book study will be cancelled and the meetings are being shortened.. a ministerial servant who had a vendetta against some of the elders wants me to talk to a co and basically tell him i left the congregation [and the religion] because of the incompetence of the elders.. i'm not talking to the co and i'm not 'blaming' anyone.
NO NO NO, NEVER AGAIN!!!!
I went back in for 7 years after having been disfellowshipped for 10 years. Just because my MOM put the scare/quilt trip on me and convinced me Armageddon was right around the corner and my babies would die. That 7 years was so wasted and unhappy. That was 25 years ago and no Armageddon, my kids are grown up and have kids of their own. I could have ruined their lives and futures too with that depressing religion.
Finally I know its not the truth and no scare tactic or anything they ever say again will get me back in that Organization/Cult.
Velvet
my baby boy is 10 years old today!!!!
my god, how fast time goes by......... we are having his party this saturday.
here are some pic's of him...... .
Happy Birthday Nicholas
He looks like a very happy Boy and a charmer I suspect. 10 years old is such a great age.
Hugs from Velvet
after finishing "combatting cult mind control" i decided to move on to the next logical book.
i've read the first 100 pages of "crisis of conscience" and it's gone by really fast.
now i know why this book is so important.
Now I am really anxious to read that book after what you said Jimmy an the others.
I ordered it 7 years ago, started to read it and then got to busy with my business and put it aside. My JW MOM came to visit and I hid it away. In January I finally was in contact with exJW's for the first time and heard that book was the best to help understand that the JW religion is not the truth. I looked high and low for that book and cannot find it. I hid it to well. I ordered it again from Amazon and just got it last week. I can hardly wait to read it. Just finishing off a library book first.
Velvet
his father's mother took this picture this noon at his birthday swimming party picnic.
i'm extremely proud of my sons and their families.
i'm glad to support those who welcome me.
Hey Garybuss
He is a little cutie, and you look so happy to be with him. Congrats on a 5 year old grandson.
My grandson is 5 too, he was 5 in January and he has identical twin brothers who are 4.
We have something in common, 5 year old grandsons LOL
Velvet
me,wife and son headed to the lake to meet up with some friends on their boat.
suppose to be in the 90's here so looking forward to it.. grilling out on the boat is such an awesome experience.
for some unknown reason to me the food always taste so much better grilled outdoors.
Have fun on the boat, I agree nothing nicer than a day on the water, food and drinks taste so much better.
I am living on the water, we did the BBQ, drinks overlooking the water, went for a nice boat ride before supper...........yesterday, today its pouring rain, no outside stuff today
Have a Great Day
Velvet
dear all, thank you for your warm welcome!
this is my story in short (pls excuse wrong spellings, english is not my native tongue and that it still became quite long).. i'm 34 and was born into the truth by parents who in their turn were baptist in young age.
i have one older sister who is currently serving at bethel with her husband and a younger brother who never embraced the truth (which was my big sorrow for many years).
Newborn Welcome to the JWD and thanks so much for sharing your story. I am so glad you finally are free of the "Lie" of the JW religion.
Your story was easy to read, your English is good. May I ask what is your first language??
Velvet
welcome to july's book club thread.. this month we are discussing a thousand splendid suns by khaled hosseini.
this book was suggested by llbh.
the format is open to any discussion you wish to have about the topic at hand, but if you're looking for something to stimulate some discussion you are welcome to use the questions below or come up with some of your own for others to answer.. possible topics for discussion.
I am almost finished reading "A thousand Splendid Suns" I will be finished later today. I started it on Saturday and its a easy read.
I read the Kite Runner last week.
Khalid Hosseini brings to life the thoughts and life of persons living in Afghanistan before, during and after the atrocities that went on there in the 1980's to 2001. Living in Canada/North America I was only hearing about what was going on in that country over the past 20 years but really had NO idea how bad it was for the people. I knew nothing of their culture or the various types of Afghan people. I knew nothing about the rich heritage they have had. This story enforces just how horrible the Taliban were and how it was to be a woman in those times. How not all men in that country were savages and that there are so much good in every culture.
I am not very good at explaining my thoughts. This story touched me deeply and had me looking up all kinds of information on Afghanistan.
Velvetann.
ok, so here's my story as it stands right now.
my husband and i have been married for 6 1/2 years.
about 2 weeks after we were married, he was appointed as a ministerial servant.
Welcome Heybaby
Nice to see you here and your experience with the WTBTS and the congregation CLUB. Your situation is similar to many here, thats why so many are leaving. You and your husband are thinking for yourself and not being puppets so you are not wanted in the Congregation. I am so happy to hear of yet another couple/person who has seen the "truth" about the JW's
Looking forward to hearing more from you
Velvetann