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  Back Again about Disfellowshipment.... Please Help!!

  by Butterflyleia85 in

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  2. beliefs

  ok so i'm doing alot better by going on this website and message board... everyone is so incouraging and wise!

  i'm really happy but struggling.. i look at this website and i am down again..... http://www.watchtower.org/e/19880415/article_01.htm.

  if someone can pick at this and help me deal with being disfellowshiped please do so.... i know alot of you are going to be like duh will don't go to jw website or stay away from it.

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  All the above is sound advice - you do well to heed it. More importantly it is your life and, I guess, you believe God has given you your life. Use the time out of the organization to see exactly what he is expecting from you - NOT what men think he is expecting from you. Half the time they're protecting their own position, not that of the individual or the congregation. The GB have given them this tool of shunning to ostensibly discipline but instead, they wield it as a weapon over the remainder of the flock to hold them in fear.

  It has struck me lately that I was told it is good to have fear, fear of displeasing Jehovah! Never once did I consider how twisted that has become.... think about!

  My father when he was alive (an elder) ALWAYS said nobody should ever be disfellowshipped for wrongdoing. If they are repentant enough they won't be - as long as the JC is not corrupt, but that's another story. Anyway, how does a spirit appointed committee of men have corrupt members? A contradiction of Jehovah's justice.

  I followed those links and spotted something in Paul's writings I'd not spotted before.... "Quit mixing in company with anyone called a brother that is a fornicator or a greedy person [or guilty of another gross sin], . . . not even eating with such a man."

  Suddenly, I see a get out in their own reasoning..... "anyone called a brother". Disfellowshipping from within the GB's own rules removes the title of brother so, Paul's admonition no longer has substance. Especially does this apply to a person who has disassociated his or herself!

  One thing I'd like to mention. I was 'in' for 35 years and always had difficulty with DF'ing. It has taken my time away to CLEARLY see what is/was going on. Please use your time to study, objectively, the things you've been taught and you have learned. You're a thinking person and are aware of your situation within your own, living context. It is that which will indicate to you the right way to go. Indeed, it is only you that really knows what IS right for you.

  Have peace but first of all forgive yourself for the guilt that is being heaped on you. Recognise where it comes from - yourself, god or a bunch of rule driven men. Goodness, that's what the Pharisees were!

  Hotspur

  edit - put in the missing words!
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  Dont shoot me!!

  by angel eyes in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  ok here we go...im going to put my head on the chopping board (so to speak).

  i only came on here to meet new people and have chats etc...yes i am a jw and do love jah.....but im also just an average person who im pretty sure many of you would get on with if we had the time to chat about other things too.... i think some want me to go....sad but yes true.....if you all want me to go then i'll do that..im fine with it as i just want to please people...... i know jb and some say they want to go to my elders,and honestly im fine with that but surely if someone is threatening then they clearly dont want me on here...... time to go???????

  or as big brother would say "who goes...you decide"?

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  Well said Shamus..... my sentimnets also.
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  Child Murderer and Rapist Baby P's Stepfather now a JW

  by JWFreak in

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  2. friends

  the monstrous stepdad of baby p has become a jehovah's witness in jail.sadistic brute steven barker, 33, keeps a bible in his cell and has told prison staff that he has "found god at last".. last night officers tasked with guarding the beast from attacks by fellow cons remained dubious about the motive for his sudden conversion.. but a senior source at wakefield prison in west yorkshire insisted: "barker is deadly serious about his new faith.".

  evil barker was caged with twisted lover tracey connelly, 28, after she helped him torture to death her defenceless 17-month-old toddler peter.

  barker is also serving life for raping a girl of two.

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  Well said BZ!
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  Watchtower Sends Legal Notice To Website Regarding Coyright Infringement

  by Bangalore in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  the watchtower has sent a legal notice to the owners of the eds blog for posting copyrighted material without permission.

  here is the link to the trancript.

  the site owners response is also there.. .

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  While the Watchtower Bible and Tract Society have not written the Bible, how can they copyright it?

  But they have re-written it so that's easy to claim copyright!
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  Governing Body: Why Do You Want The Disloyal?

  by metatron in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i address this question to the governing body, to their internet monitors or to any apologist who might want to speak for them.. why do you want disloyal people in your "clean" organization?.

  it should be evident by now that an untold number of people in the organization do not really want to be jehovah's witnesses any longer.

  specifically, they don't want to attend meetings, or to donate money to the worldwide work, or spend real time going door to door.

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  I smell a fish! Remember "Goodbye and thanks for all the fish"? Reniaa's farewell.....

  Janseyhull - Hull is an area in North-East England...... now for the cruncher!

  Follow this link

  Good questions BTW
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  jw.org seems to have crashed

  by NotBlind in

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  2. friends

  today, sept. 14th, is the big day when jw's are supposed to be able to download the new songbook music from the jw.org website.. and their website seems to have crashed.. too much traffic/demand for the new tunes?

  or was it hacked?.

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  It'll be there within the generation!
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  jw.org seems to have crashed

  by NotBlind in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  today, sept. 14th, is the big day when jw's are supposed to be able to download the new songbook music from the jw.org website.. and their website seems to have crashed.. too much traffic/demand for the new tunes?

  or was it hacked?.

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  I bet WTWizard is disappointed
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  Child Murderer and Rapist Baby P's Stepfather now a JW

  by JWFreak in

  1. jw
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  the monstrous stepdad of baby p has become a jehovah's witness in jail.sadistic brute steven barker, 33, keeps a bible in his cell and has told prison staff that he has "found god at last".. last night officers tasked with guarding the beast from attacks by fellow cons remained dubious about the motive for his sudden conversion.. but a senior source at wakefield prison in west yorkshire insisted: "barker is deadly serious about his new faith.".

  evil barker was caged with twisted lover tracey connelly, 28, after she helped him torture to death her defenceless 17-month-old toddler peter.

  barker is also serving life for raping a girl of two.

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  hotspur

  The Sun...... not the world's best bet - Hey!

  Read about it here _ The Sun

  Typical...... but how do JW's really view this?
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  Elders Trash Face Book

  by sammielee24 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  just found out that elders and spies are trolling face book and my space.

  some elders in xxx congregation began trolling face book looking for wayward souls and using the links to other friends etc to get more info.

  they waited until they had enough ammo on the 'friends' and then printed off some of the conversations being had....questioned the 'friends' who of course denied everything..and then they produced the printed copies to catch them in the lies.

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  Why is the sauce not just for the Gander..... surely it applies to the Goose as well?

  You should be able to 'out' an elder for spotting you on facebook!

  Hypocrisy!
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  Dealing with a 'molested child' in a Judicial matter.

  by dissed in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  i'm trying to respect the privacy of this individual, so forgive me if i'm a little too vague in my descriptions.. this for me, was the most emotional and difficult judicial matter that i have ever experienced.

  its been many years since this happened and i'm still troubled, and troubled for this individual.. a young sister had committed fornication and i was chosen to sit on the judicial committee.. the case didn't make sense at first.

  she was a faithful example in the congregation and was very much liked by all.

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  It's so easy to be hard on yourself..... you were/are Captive to a Concept, one which can be so ungodly and unchristian at times. Seek your own forgiveness and move on. It's good advice to see if you can find this person and apologise and leave that there, with her.

  What bothers me is the sheer arrogance and unthinking nature of the whole paedophile scandal coupled with their Judicial process. How an idiot like this CO say, "You must do the right thing" and yet cover over the REAL cause of the problem? The nutter molestor who, presumably, is still in WTS circulation! HE is the one to whom the JC should have done the right thing and when that's done - out the CO for potentailly destroying another innocent life whilst pursuing their 'pipedream' of their Spiritaul Paradise! Laudable objective but needs true Christian Love.

  Idiots!