I'm sorry to hear of your loss.
when my Mother died eight years ago, I walked away from being a witness.
She was one for over 25 years, 15 years ago my parents moved out of state to retire.
When she died, despite her death being read at the meetings, and an obituary posted in three different newspapers, only 5 people sent a card. One stopped off to visit.
She was not an uber witness, but she did her duty, and spent much time taking care of physically sick ones. The neglect from witnesses that knew our family for several decades was the last straw for me, and because she was an animal loving person I trained my dog to be a therapy animal. For eight years we have visited hospitals, nursing homes, schools, and sickly neighbors.
And guess what ? Helping people in this way has been so therapeutic, and up building for me, much more than knocking on doors. I feel her presence whenever we do this type of work.
So find something that your parent liked, and use it as a springboard to do greater things.
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