Buffy,
I am so glad you are free from the WT with your life and sanity intact. I will pray for you.
You describe my feelings ("I have no desire to ever set foot in any church") after I got out of the WT (back in 1995 when the "New Light" on the 1914 generation came out). I hear this sentiment expressed a lot, and beleive it is normal coming out of a high control cult like the WT.
I agree with others in saying "give it time". I went through the phase you describe, and I believe others have too. Even after 7 years, I still don't want to go to church, even though I am a member of one! (and its a great church...don't get me wrong)
The best thing I can tell you up front, is too get your hands on Steven Hassan's books, like "Combatting Cult Mind Control". (he has a newer book also). He is an expert and a leading Exit-Counselor. He is a survivor from a cult himself.
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0892813113/qid=1033165798/sr=8-2/ref=sr_8_2/104-0027374-4711140?v=glance&n=507846
One of the reasons why it is important to read one of his books, is so you do not fall into another cult...as another has already pointed out as being common.
Personally, I beleive that just about any Protestant denomination would be great for you. Spiritual development is a long road..it is not as simple as reading a red covered "Live Forever" book. Salvation is by Christ's finished work on the cross, through faith, plus nothing. Ephesians 2:8
"Keep seeking as for hid treasures, and you will find", is what the promise is.
In Christ