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  Halloween Pics

  by Sparkplug in

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  here are some pics i want to share from my little one and i dressing up for halloween.

  i usually opt for the non traditional costumes, but this year i thought i would vamp it up!

  hehe.

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  Jeeeeeeeeeezzzzzzzz Louizzzzzzzzzzzzzzz!! Those are absolutely the coolest pics. I am so jealous. Ms. Sparky...you need to be in the picture taking Hall of Fame.

  I too love that black and white one of you and am glad you have it as your new avatar (though there was nothing wrong with the old one)...and your daughter? She just blows me away with those expressions!! It just makes me want to kidnap her to play with my little granddaughter Lily. They both have that certain twinkle in their eyes!!

  Hug...mumsy
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  Mums birthday pics!

  by Latte in

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  thank you al so much for your best wishes for my mothers 70th birthday...i really appreciate your kind comments!

  i shall show mum when she calls round later!.

  her are a few pics from last night...some are relatives who i have not seen in many years.... pictures 1) sister & me 2) claire,ian n me 3) mum,and close family 4)daughter 5) long lost cousins...now found!.

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  Well I'm sure glad you had so much fun. Aren't birthday's grand? And as for that "guy in the second pic between the girls" (YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE)...I want some of what he's on!! Oh hahahaha!

  Great pics. I love pics. Need more pics.

  hug...mumsy
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  Raising well rounded and balanced kids...what have you done right?

  by My MILs worst nightmare, a nonJW in

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  parenting is one of the most difficult yet rewarding things there is.

  doesn't every parent want their children to have a good moral compass, to have good manners, to be socially adept, to be compassionate, to reach their potential and even overachieve in terms of school and career, to appreciate and understand history, science, the arts and the world as a whole, to play team sports when they are younger so they can benefit from physical activity and the comraderie of a team sport, and above all to be a critical thinkers who are strong and independent so that they will not become easy prey to abusive organizations and/or abusive people?.

  as a parent i have many times felt like a real failure and at other times like i am actually helping them to reach their potential.. what do you feel that you have done right in raising well rounded and balanced kids?

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  I have two of the greatest kids in the world (just like every parent most likely thinks) and I'll be darned if I know how that happened!

  mumsy
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  HAPPY HALLOWEEN!!!!!!!!!!!!! (pics in inside as if you didn't know)

  by whyamihere in

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  well as i promised, i would have some halloween pics for you guys!!!!!.

  i went as a bride for halloween....nothing scary but the dress was gaudy and tacky!.

  drinking in the hotel........(yes the dress was a size 8 and my boobs didn't do well in it...lol).

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  HadEnuf

  Here's my pics...if you missed them on my other Halloween topic which by now is buried. Isn't that Brookie just gorgeous? I actually like that bridesmaid dress. The color is beautiful and well...I just like it. Maybe it's because I'm old.

  Happy Halloween everybody!!!

  Fairy Bag Lady and Lily (Brookies daughter)

  Fairy Bag Lady and Jack (Brookies son)

  Jack and Austin (Brookies husband and my son)

  Don't hate me because I'm beautiful

  Handing out candy at Brookie & Austin's

  Lily...a dancing princess

  Jack...before getting into costume

  My pumpkins
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  Post 'Em Here...Halloween Pics!!

  by HadEnuf in

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  i had them all posted and then had the double post so deleted one and they both deleted.

  arghhhhhhhhh...haunted computer!!

  me and the hubster at party saturday.

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  HadEnuf

  Ooooohhhhhhh...I am starting to get a little scared here! Good pics you guys!!

  mumsy
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  Ten Reasons Halloween is better than SEX

  by purplesofa in

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  10 reasons halloween is better than sex!

  10. you're guaranteed to get a little something in the sack.

  9. the uglier you are, the easier it is to get some.

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  11. You only have to do it once a year! Oh hahahaha!

  mumsy
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  Post 'Em Here...Halloween Pics!!

  by HadEnuf in

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  i had them all posted and then had the double post so deleted one and they both deleted.

  arghhhhhhhhh...haunted computer!!

  me and the hubster at party saturday.

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  HadEnuf

  I had them all posted and then had the double post so deleted one and they both deleted. Arghhhhhhhhh...haunted computer!! I'll try again!

  Me and the hubster at party saturday

  

  Austin, my son and his daughter Lily (whyamihere's family)

  

  Austin & Jack

  

  Lily the Dancing Princess

  

  The Fairy Bag Lady and Lily

  

  The Fairy Bag Lady and Jack

  

  Don't hate me because I'm beautiful

  

  

  Lilykins

  Jack

  My pumpkins

  
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  I'm a little confused about this forum

  by gordon d in

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  i know that i'm new here...and maybe this topic has already been covered.

  i keep reading posts from members that make referrence to going to a meeting or going out in service..... holy crap?!?!?

  what percentage of the people here still actually consider themselves as witnesses?????

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  Hello Gordon! Here is my theory of why some, not all, still do the JW thing even though their heart is out of it. It's like being in an abusive marriage. (This is from a female point of view, but it works both ways as to gender). The wife is abused, bullied and is generally treated unkindly by her husband. She has kids and those kids have grandparents and maybe she's not financially independent. So she stays because she see's no alternative at that time. She takes the abuse because she has no where else to turn. I think it is called "Battered Wife Syndrome". So I think there is a form of "Battered JW Syndrome". Some people feel they need to stay in for numerous reasons. They have a JW spouse whom they love and is totally devoted to everything JW. They have children who are the of the same thinking as their spouse. They stay because they feel there is no way out without losing family, friends...their whole support structure (for whatever it's worth). This is especially true of those raised JW or who have been in decades. Their whole life has been an isolated life of JWism. It's hard to leave things behind and virtually start over. Many here have done it and reaped the consequences. In my case it was losing all JW "friends" and being shunned by my mom and sister for over 4 years now. Others, as I stated before, stay so they don't make waves and can retain their relationships with loved ones. It's a HARD, HARD choice.

  So what may appear hypocritical to some (still going to meetings, field service, etc.)...is behavior brought on essentially by JW dogma and their rules and regulations. Whatever way you choose to look at it...it's a lose, lose situation.

  A hug for you...mumsy
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  Do You Really "Care" If Someone's Gay Or Not???

  by minimus in

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  so often, you see people all up in arms because it is revealed that an individual is "gay".

  do you really care??

  personally, i don't.

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  HadEnuf

  Of course my thinking has changed drastically since leaving the JW's...but I feel in my heart that a person that is "gay" is born that way and that's all there is to it. They should be alloted all the privleges that any other human being takes for granted...and that includes marriage.

  mumsy
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  Baby's first halloween pics

  by mariposa in

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  last year i still wasn't sure about halloween, but this year we're going to dress the munchkin up.

  it's been alot of fun looking for something and decorating the house.

  my family was not witnesses so growing up we celebrated everything...i remember it always as good times.

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  HadEnuf

  What a great pic! I just want to squeeze them little cheeks and tickle her under the chin!!!

  mumsy