The last congregation I was associated with was a very reserved bunch.If you weren't in the clique they didn't even acknowledge you.I was never invited to any of their get-togethers the whole year I went there.I think the main reason was that I was married to an unbeliever and they might have been afraid I would bring him with me.Anyhow,the way I handled it was just to drop out of the whole business.I don't think being snobbish is christian so they couldn't be the true religion.The congregation I am speaking of is Mesquite Central in Mesquite,Texas.Even the sister who studied with me wouldn't let me in on any get-togethers.I came to the conclusion that I didn't want to live in a world with people like that even if they were the true ones.Very,very,hurtful to always be left out.