And quite bizarre as one of the main grounds for DFing was your going on holiday with DF’d friends , yet one of the elders was originally due to go on the same holiday. Would it not have made more sense to choose 3 elders who had no connection with you?
Wasn't it patently obvious that he had his own agenda? Mental. They just do whatever they want, making it up as they go along. Just as well a person's eternal salvation isn't at stake...
Lessons for faders who don’t want to be DFd: Say nothing to anyone , especially family. If “shepherded” , respond in the vaguest fashion about “a few issues” or doubts -don’t elaborate. Never put anything in writing that could be used against you.
Isn't it a shame that those who don't believe the teachings of the GB can't just leave and get on with their lives without fearing punishment from the rest of the group? Isn't that an offense against a person's human rights?