Deputy,
Since most dedicated JWs refuse to give opinions, it's hard to answer your questions. Having said that, refusing to give your opinion may be your first clue.
Many of us here were dedicated JWs. We are giving our testimony. We were fooled, misled. We believed we were serving God. Why should we assume that the majority of current JWs are any different than we were?
When the R&F JW refuses to give his opinion, we assume he has stopped thinking for himself. I would submit that this is a conscious effort (though subtle) to deny the facts. He is still thinking, but refuses to tell you what his thoughts and opinions are, this requires more thought than simply revealing his own thoughts in the first place. This is usually caused by fear.
The cult member is taught that any thought that is out of harmony with official dogma is "Independent Thinking", and therefore sinful, rebelious. He clears his mind of those thoughts. He does not speak them, for fear he would stumble others, etc. As you say, this is from fear: a fear of displeasing God or even a fear of the Judicial Machinery, which he he unlikely to admit, as it would show spiritual "weakness".
This level of dishonesty is like, when a soldier, who can't justify his actions, says I was just following orders (passing the buck). With some experience, this isn't that hard to spot. Most of us can see when a witness feels uncomfortable answering questions.
Cult members start with a foregone conlusion: "I am serving the only true God. I am 100% certain that the instructions given to me by the Society are right. Moreover, even if they are wrong (gag) I must follow, because doing otherwise would be an act of disloyalty to God." It's this mindset that allowed me and allows current JWs to do all sorts of awful things, in my opinion. It's disgusting, and I'm relieved to be out of the cult.
Another level would be, the well documented "Theocratic War Strategy". Do you really have to think hard to see, that the WTBS has redefined lying? Where this has been done in courts, do you think the witness doesn't know this is lying? A lie is a lie. It doesn't matter who you are lying too or if the person is entitled to the truth or not.
Agreed. A lie is a lie.
The cult member, engaging in Theocratic Warfare believes he is doing God's will. JWs can be disfellowshipped for "lying", but they will be praised for Theocratic Warfare, as such warfare is just, righteous and necessary, etc.
One thing we agree on: It's a dangerous cult, and the lies and deceptions are wrong, no matter what is going through the minds of the participants. I have helped more than one person recognize the truth about WT and I'm hoping to assist more.
-LWT