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  Do you love yourself?

  by Newborn in

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  i think, that since i left the cult, i've finally learned to love myself.

  i know i'm a better person now.

  that i'm good and lovabl, (and if there is a god he may also be happy with me.

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  Newborn

  Edington - good luck!

  Fokyc -
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  I wish I never "Started that Topic"

  by acolytes in

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  it would be nice to have a post on "topics i wished i never started" and to read the posts.. acolytes.

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  Fun idea!

  I've no regrets...so far
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  Do you ever feel anxious..for no reason.

  by lisavegas420 in

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  i feel, ....not quite myself, but i don't know why.

  i feel anxious...un-nerved, like something isn't right, but don't know what.

  i dread the day, and the week.

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  Yes it can happen to me too...I hope it passes quickly. I hope you're not lonely dear??
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  Still Confused

  by EmptyInside in

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  this last week has been especially hard for me.

  this is all new to me, and as most of you know, the journey is gut wrenching, quite painful.

  lately, i've been trying to take the go with the flow approach.

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  Newborn

  Dear emptyinside, I think most of us been where you are right now...so you're in the right place. We understand you completely.

  I'm sure everything will sort itself out for you in due course...you have to come to the right conclusions and decisions for yourself...it can't be forced. Be patient and let it take it's time.

  If you could just leave the wt-org without any concequences it would be so much easier but that's not the case (that's why it's a cult)...we will have to face being shunned by are closest family and friends etc. That's tough indeed!! I've lost my sister and it's painful everyday but I still think that my gained freedom, self-esteem and new better friends is worth it.

  All the best to you and good luck. Let us know how you're doing.

  Love

  Newborn
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  Do you like unexpected visitors?

  by highdose in

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  i fall into the sad bracket of not likiing them.

  sorry but i spend my whole working day being unrelentingly polite and charming ... when i get home i want to switch off and slob out.

  i do not want the doorbell to ring and have to play host!

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  Newborn

  Depends who it is
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  Do you love yourself?

  by Newborn in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i think, that since i left the cult, i've finally learned to love myself.

  i know i'm a better person now.

  that i'm good and lovabl, (and if there is a god he may also be happy with me.

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  Newborn

  you made me special - yes Aussie, you're very special

  RR - ??

  chickpea & white dove -
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  Do you love yourself?

  by Newborn in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i think, that since i left the cult, i've finally learned to love myself.

  i know i'm a better person now.

  that i'm good and lovabl, (and if there is a god he may also be happy with me.

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  Newborn

  Do you have any idea what he's gonna do in there???

  Nope and I don't think I want to know
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  Do you love yourself?

  by Newborn in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i think, that since i left the cult, i've finally learned to love myself.

  i know i'm a better person now.

  that i'm good and lovabl, (and if there is a god he may also be happy with me.

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  Newborn

  ninja - go to your room!
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  Do you love yourself?

  by Newborn in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i think, that since i left the cult, i've finally learned to love myself.

  i know i'm a better person now.

  that i'm good and lovabl, (and if there is a god he may also be happy with me.

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  Newborn

  I think, that since I left the cult, I've finally learned to love myself. When you're a JW you never feel good enough, there's always someone better and who's doin more and god don't think you're good enough etc etc. and then they had the nerve to tell me I was laying all that guilt on myself??

  I know I'm a better person now. That I'm good and lovabl, (and if there is a god he may also be happy with me).

  It's a nice feeling.

  Love ya!

  /Newborn
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  My parents may seperate after 42yrs:(

  by Newborn in

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  my parents have big problems in their marriage and my mom is now planning to leave my father.

  i feel i have to be strong for their sake but i don't live near them unfortunately...we've been a tight family and it's very sad to see the family split after so long.

  i left my marriage and the cult last year, my sister treats me as if i'm dead and no man wants me.... sometimes i'm so tired of having to be strong.

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  Newborn

  thanks Flipper and tt for your love