AGuest: I was totally taken aback as I never considered "quarry" to be a "big" word.
(It's not such a really big word. It's just that you were so superior to that car full of backwoods illiterates. Hey. You're nobody if you can't be better than somebody else, right?)
AGuest: I mean, it's where Fred Flintstone works!
(Do you mean the company of JWs are dumber than stone age?)
AGuest: Still, it never occurred to me that "quarry" would be an offensive word.
(There is nothing offensive about the word itself. It was probably the manner and tone in which it was delivered. )
AGuest: So, I asked them, "What do YOU call it?" After hesitating for some time, one of them sputtered out, "Well, it's... it's... we call it a ROCK PIT!"
(Certainly makes you feel superior to point out one's illiteracy or inadequacy, doesn't it? Making them admit it kinda pushes it in their face.)
AGuest: I personally couldn't fathom it. I would never do that to my husband, even if it wasn't something I knew about. I would either have waited patiently for the subject to change,....
(again, you are just too superior in manners and etiquette to those you end up with in company. Common folk are just so flawed, aren't they? Personally, I have all ideas that you are too verbose and self centered to allow for very long a conversation that does not concern your self or your views.)
AGuest: So, my question(s) is/are: do you get offended when someone uses words/phrases... or comments on/discusses something... you are not familiar with?
(Do I get offended? No, because I realize that if the person truly wanted to communicate with me and cared about my feelings they would "stoop to my level" to make the effort rather than aggrandizing themself to appear to be superior to me. If there are others around that feel the same way, there will often be eye contact among us and some eye rolls because we are all in understanding that some people have to put others down in order to feel better about themselves. Some do it with using behavior out of the league of the company they are in. Take for example, people who overdress for the occassion simply to show they are not really "one of the commoners". Some do it with dress, others do it with words or mannerisms. Sounds like you've got it all down pat.
Those who think they are superior to others often exhibit this attitude in some manner so as to distinguish themselves from the lower ones.)