I don't think there was really anything at all to win here actually, but I have to give AF his "props" for proving his point.
Seems to me that Russell's actions showed that he at least liked the idea of being the faithful and wise steward and never rejected his wife's or anyone else's view of it. As a matter of fact, he would have been an idiot to reject it as it was giving him more of this odd spiritual charisma that other "messiahs" on this board seem to enjoy.
If you all want a modern-day example of what most likely was happening in the late 1800s to early 1900s, then take a look at some of the older postings of a gentleman who posts here by the name of MDS. You will see that up until his posts regarding "scapegoat arrangements" he was making good headway with mind-melding others on this board into thinking that he may have just been a second offerring from God, chosen to preach in these "last days".
The whole basis of his arguments were presenting "scriptural arguments" showing the need of a new "position" to be filled spiritually, along with the attributes of said person, then slowly introducing the idea through implication that perhaps HE was the one filling that position.
MDS was pretty good until he started making blatant statements about his perceived "role" in God's plan and received direct attacks from other "Christ messengers" posting on this board which drove his "scirptural" arguments into oblivion.
Anyway, to make a long story short, I believe that this type of situation was occurring back at the beginning of this century with Russell and his followers. He kept implying what he thought they SHOULD believe until they believed it. Of course he would never ADMIT to it publicly because unlike MDS Russell was smart enough to know that if he were to declare it publicly then he would be called a liar if it was discovered to be a falsehood by other "messiah people". So he played it safe and allowed others to draw the conclusions he desired others to reach.
The WT in more recent times have handled each of their "prohetic notions" in this similar manner. Pronounce "the end" at say... 1975. Puff up people's hopes with specious assertions and implications, then when it doesn't happen it's the fault of the believers for believing what they were encouraged to believe. Oh of course the WT never SAID anything directly, so it's not their fault! Just forget where the readers got the idea came from!