Thanks Rebel...I needed that smile
Lurk3r, no, I don't think it'll be just one thing to make the lightbulb go off. She's not even Kinda seein' the light.
As a sidenote, the reason for the cupcakes were to hang with the sis but also to make something for a kid's party she was throwing for all the jw kids. she said she'd really love for me to come, so I did. It was a lil boring, but nice....UNTIL one of 'sisters' was talking to my sister and I overheard her say "yeah, I don't need to guard my stuff since this its just jw's here"....
I thought to myself "yeah, cuz there's aLways a robbery & theft at the other parties I attend" I just decided it was time to leave and let people enjoy the kickass cupcakes (which they did!)