Since you're not a JW you aren't under any obligation to listen to wts leaders as to view EX-JW as evil! Second, for her to tell you that:
She says that she does not go around looking for support groups that ‘bad mouth’ my church or religion so she does not understand why I go to a group that bad mouths the WatchTower Society.
That's a total lie but she just doesn't get it since she's under wts influence! Everytime she goes to wts meetings she goes to a group of people who bad mouth your and everyone else's religion or church however you look at it! When did wts ever say that some religion has some mistaken beliefs but are alright with God and the people will be saved? WTS says that everyone outside WTS will die at armageddon since God doesn't view others are being true Christians. You can ask her what the difference is between you coming here and her going to the meetings? Plus ask her what lies about WTS have you told her? As long as you baack everything you say about wts with their own publications she can't really say much. My wife still goes to the dubland but I'm sure she knows that they aren't the truth but I think she's scared to admit it. Some people don't want the truth as long as they're happy that's all they care about.