Posts by creativhoney

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aw thanks everyone. I am a total idiot. I spent the last two years loving someone and being forgiving when they walk all over me. every holiday (non term time) without fail he dumped me and slept with someone else, like an idiot I pretended it was casual and just carried on. w

we didnt speak for five months, and then i let him walk back in my life and foolishly into my heart and bed again. - he blows hot and cold, came round the other day and I said, instead of just blowing hot and cold, start being honest, - he said oh Im taking a girl out on thursday..

then I get the whole what did you expect? we arent in a relationship..

its not me that goes weird its him/ - dont worry, this time I said go away, leave me alone and let me get on with my life and meet other people. buut I am so angry at myself. - is it our witness upbringing that makes us pushovers, and be so forgiving of people who clearly dont even deserve the time of day from us? he asked me to sew his coat, have my spare mobile, and help with his assignment, knowing he was taking someone else out, knowing hed been sleeping with me. what a user, why the hell was I so nice to him?

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I feel so down :(

by creativhoney in

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Merry Pantsmas Everyone!

by Billy the Ex-Bethelite in

okay, i posted this in a thread that got locked and buried.

since then i've been really busy and have overdosed on christmas music in the past week.

so, i'm resurrecting this "holy day" holiday that most people will unknowingly be celebrating tomorrow.

creativhoney

everything is pagan as thats what we all once were. shame many Jws think its some kind of religion and not just what it is, - simple country folk.

they may as well say we can't do this because it stems from being human.

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Honesty in Field Service Reports....This week's CBS topic (among others)

by Open mind in

this week's congregation "bible" study.

the drone running the show asked an auxiliary question (tm):.

"so, what could be some of the consequences if people weren't honest in reporting their field service?".

creativhoney

erm.. how would they know?

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Is it too soon to ask about New Years Resolutions?

by AwSnap in

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i recently heard that if you truly want to get something accomplished in the next year, do not make it your new year's resolution.

90% of people (ok, just made that percentage up, but its close i know) quit their new year's resolutions within six days after january 1st.

wow!.

creativhoney

be happy

stop letting Ben walk all over me for another year and make me sad.

develop meaningful relationships

finish my course with distinction

earn money

lose weight

get my self esteem back.

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Are you a lonely JW this xmas day? read on...

by highdose in

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this is a post for all those jw lurkers out there who were once like me but probably think they are all alone and that noone else is going through what they are.... xmas day as a lonely jw is a real bitch!

what happens is: you spend the whole day alone, knowing that all those jw familys in your area are all together today having a great time!

if you have a family thats not jw then they are also all together having a great time... but you can't join in.... so you sit there watching tv, all the xmas films coming on... showing familys together on xmas day.... but wait a second!

creativhoney

IM happy my sister is here. - everyone has their own plans. my friends were good enough to include me last year, but I do feel quite lonely to be honest. - I miss my mum and my brother/nephews/nieces, while they all get together and 'not celebrate christmas' yea right.

I havent seen my mum for a year, she called in and seemed to be very offended by the tree.

all I can say is at least I have my Helen and my Kids. but I still dont feel too merry. x

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So what are you going to do today? Xmas topix

by AwSnap in

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i gave my hubby his present around 6a.... we (me & hubby) will be celebrating christmas with a family that used to go to our same kh (the dad was an elder and one of the daughters regularly pioneered for years).

they all left the jw's a little over a year ago.

we were asked to bring some extra chairs, but the only ones i could think of were some old bookstudy chairs stashed at my parents house, which are now in the back of my car.

creativhoney

ah a tofurkey lol. I didnt pick up on that.. enjoy xxx

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I can't taste my food

by creativhoney in

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what irony is this?

i'm never ill and now i have a horrible cold and im having a roast dinner :(.

creativhoney

i am totally OD'd on beechams, ive had twice as many as I should in the last 24 hours, but my headache won't go. :'(

also Im fed up lol x

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Philosophical question: What is humour?

by yadda yadda 2 in

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what is humour?

how do you define it?.

what is the purpose of it?

creativhoney

humour is the same as sound. - it needs something like an ear drum to receive it. of a tree falls in the woods and no one is there will anyone hear it? - sound is only created by vibrations off the ear drum.. is humour the same? something that can be interpreted as funny, but there has to be someone there to interpret it?

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Philosophical question: What is humour?

by yadda yadda 2 in

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what is humour?

how do you define it?.

what is the purpose of it?

creativhoney

of a tree falls in the woods and no one is there will anyone hear it?

i meant 'if' and I meant will it make a sound. sorry, I'm poorly