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  how do I banish negative thinking?

  by creativhoney in

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  the kind that keeps me awake at night.. i feel so sad at the moment.

  stupid man trouble the one aspect in life im not strong in, the guy i have loved for two years.

  hes on a date today.

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  creativhoney

  the kind that keeps me awake at night.

  I feel so sad at the moment. stupid man trouble the one aspect in life Im not strong in, the guy I have loved for two years. hes on a date today. he stayed at mine for the past two. found out hes been doing the deed with someone else too. tbh we arent together, and I feel sorry for the girl hes taken out, i mean he rolled out of my bed and on to his date.

  hes much younger than me.. it will never work, its just loneliness.

  Im sick of his name hanging in my thoughts like a word that wont go away. Id give anything to get out more, meet new friends. I dont want him to love me, I want to have no feelings for him whatsoever. - in all my life i have never been less in control of something thats so damaging and making me ill.

  I know the answers, I just dont know how I get the strength. I should be asleep now!
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  Please help? My sis has been summoned to a JC without a prior meeting.

  by creativhoney in

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  they have caught up with my sis, they want her to come to a meeting on monday.

  she says she is going to just go and blag.

  - even attend a few meetings if necessary.

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  she doesnt want to attend meetings or give up her lifestyle. she also lives with me, her disfellowshipped sister...

  she isnt prepared to change her lifestyle

  but she doesnt want to be DFd

  thats the jist of it.

  Im thinking catch 22.
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  Please help? My sis has been summoned to a JC without a prior meeting.

  by creativhoney in

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  they have caught up with my sis, they want her to come to a meeting on monday.

  she says she is going to just go and blag.

  - even attend a few meetings if necessary.

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  creativhoney

  cattails my sis loves your response. - i wish she would join us on here
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  Please help? My sis has been summoned to a JC without a prior meeting.

  by creativhoney in

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  they have caught up with my sis, they want her to come to a meeting on monday.

  she says she is going to just go and blag.

  - even attend a few meetings if necessary.

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  creativhoney

  I know Zomb, I dont know what she is gonna do I will show her this though. x x catch you on skype soon dude!
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  Please help? My sis has been summoned to a JC without a prior meeting.

  by creativhoney in

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  they have caught up with my sis, they want her to come to a meeting on monday.

  she says she is going to just go and blag.

  - even attend a few meetings if necessary.

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  creativhoney

  Rubadub,

  yes shes a bit gobby, and shes told a few people she doesnt believe it and she has been looking stuff up on the net. about Russell and Rutherford...
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  Please help? My sis has been summoned to a JC without a prior meeting.

  by creativhoney in

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  they have caught up with my sis, they want her to come to a meeting on monday.

  she says she is going to just go and blag.

  - even attend a few meetings if necessary.

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  she says she doesnt believe it and she is just going to go and BS. I am dubious as to whether or not that will work...
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  Please help? My sis has been summoned to a JC without a prior meeting.

  by creativhoney in

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  they have caught up with my sis, they want her to come to a meeting on monday.

  she says she is going to just go and blag.

  - even attend a few meetings if necessary.

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  creativhoney

  they have caught up with my sis, they want her to come to a meeting on Monday. she says she is going to just go and blag. - even attend a few meetings if necessary. - she has a boyfriend, and they want her because they believe she has been saying negative things about the organisation. - even if she pretends, I don't know how it will bode for her. - can anyone give any sound advice.. ? she would rather not be disfellowshipped but they have relentlessly been tracking her down for weeks and weeks phone calls, knocking on the door etc.

  thanks in anticipation of any response.

  Andi x
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  Sure fire fast track route to the big DF...

  by creativhoney in

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  ok so when i finally didnt care, i did attend a jc, but i wanted closure, deep down i actually wanted them to df me.

  - has anyone else been in this scenario, and what did you say at your jc that ensured the right action was taken.. they asked me how i felt about my relationship with jehovah - i simply said, i dont feel anything since i dont have one.

  i dont pray, i dont study, and i dont show much interest.

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  Ok so when I finally didnt care, I did attend a JC, but I wanted closure, deep down I actually wanted them to DF me. - has anyone else been in this scenario, and what did you say at your JC that ensured the right action was taken.

  they asked me how I felt about my relationship with Jehovah - I simply said, I dont feel anything since I dont have one. I dont pray, I dont study, and I dont show much interest. I dont comment or go on the min...

  that more or less did it.
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  How do you reply?

  by darthfader in

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  i have read this board for a couple of years, and only began posting this past year.

  i read some amazingly articulate questions and responses, and i admire the effort that people put into their posts.

  with that in mind, how do you work out your posts?

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  creativhoney

  I just have a random thought in my head and post away, then again, I don't really tend to ask long questions x
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  Would You Have Remained A Witness If They Weren't Sooo Strict?

  by minimus in

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  i think i would've probably tolerated the religion if "conscience" really did play a role in the religion.

  there are many people in religions that do not believe every thing that is taught, yet they are still members in good standing.

  of course, jehovah's witnesses aren't like that.. you have to believe it all or you will be "no longer considered a jehovah's witness".

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  creativhoney

  I wouldnt have if my parents weren't so strict, they were over the top and militant.