1. I should never defend going to college, as it was "defending the indefensable"
The gobshite that said this to me was wanting to move up the chain in the body of elders - cocky piece of work , was doing the nasty with the woman his wife worked for.
The wife initially kicked him out, the guy lost his "position" but was repentent. He went through a real depression, came out the other side a hell of a lot more humble and despite his infidelity, likable guy (who's wife forgave him and they are happier than I have ever known them - you can tell the way they are when they think no one is watching). I heard the other week when i back in my home city that he just started........AT COLLEGE. :D
2. I've mentioned it before on here, but i was counselled against using too many worldly quotes in my talks - if i must quote, i should find quotes from faithful people through the WT and awake. To date I have used Mother Theresa, Ghandi, woody allen, Martin Luther, JFK and Frasier crane :D
As the PO's son, when I was growing up i was able to avoid most "counsel"