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  Did you ever try any of the awkward, and somewhat creepy suggestions in the KM for Informal Witnessing?

  by miseryloveselders in

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  the august km, has an article entitled, "you can witness informally!

  " this week's service meeting will cover half of the 13 questions.

  next week, congregations will finish the article along with a box full of several experiences with successful results from informal witnessing.

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  I used to run into this nutcase sister on the subway heading home during when they used to have book study night. She would always try to engage me in convo about the night's lesson. I mainly wanted her to keep quiet and let me enjoy my ride in peace.

  When we get to the book study or at the hall, she would go around bragging about how she and I would informally witness to the folks on the subway. Always saying how she knew they were listening, even if they didn't ask any questions or wanted any lit. Then would say, "We're getting them aren't we, Girlie?" I never co-signed with her on this.
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  Should Immigrants Be Made To Learn English If They're Living In The USA?

  by minimus in

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  whaddya think?

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  Yes
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  Demon possessed furniture?? Any scriptural support?

  by digderidoo in

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  i remember instances where we told that the demons could get into the house through furniture or ornaments.

  if anyone had a problem in the house with demons, they should remove anything that they may have bought second hand.

  i remember one family getting rid of their carpet!.

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  LOL @ Wasblind

  Never came across any scriptural evidence for this. Just typical JW scare tactic.
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  Ideas on how to break the news to my old best friend that I do not believe anymore

  by life is to short in

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  ok i hope i do not regret posting this but here it goes.. i was at bethel and met this sister, i worked with her and we became best friends.

  i never had a true family as my parents were abusive and i never fit in with any of the sisters when i pioneered all the sister hated me and let me know it very clearly.

  i never had any friends in the truth before her so i was amazed that she found any good in me.

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  Girlie

  I agree with Soldier. You invested money and took the time to plan this trip. That's what vacations are for: to relax and refresh you. Not to cause more misery. Spend a day with her just to show face and do some catching up, but don't let her take over your vacation time. It is yours and your husband's time together.

  I understand how you feel. I have a cruise I am going on (2 days from today) with a soon to be former JW buddy of mine. She is aware of my feelings about the org and knows I do not go to the meetings, FS, etc. It was too late to back out of it since a lot of money was invested into it. The unspoken rule is that she is not to talk to me about anything JW-related and I am not to tell her the truth about the "truth". I do know that she will attempt a final plea for my return and I am already prepared on how I will tactfully handle it should it occur. Once this cruise is over with, so will our friendship. A bit upsetting, but not worth my total freedom.
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  I have a date!

  by Soldier77 in

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  ...and she isn't a witness!!

  woohooo!.

  the story:.

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  Girlie

  Congrats, Soldier!!!

  I too have a date for this coming Friday. Wish us both the best!!! There really is a happy ending after JWism.
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  Do You Like People - Period?

  by snowbird in

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  well, do you?.

  sometimes, i like them -other times, i'm not so sure.. syl.

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  Edited: Sometimes, I do. Most times, I don't.
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  SO sad! The elders never cease to amaze me...

  by babygirl30 in

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  on fb yesterday, an old friend of mine 'friended' me....and once again, i was hesitant to actually accept because i didn't know how she would feel about me being df'd.

  but i accepted, and she sent me a msg.

  well we ended up talking back and forth for awhile, and found out that she lives right around the corner from me!!!!!!!!!!

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  Girlie

  Strength and blessings to you and your friend, Babygirl30! A very heartwrenching testimony. It is wonderful that both of you have found each other and can grow and heal together through the bonds of true friendship and support.
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  Audacity

  by Heartbreaker in

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  i don't pretend to understand what motivates my husband when it comes to his family.

  he's completely fine ignoring, even hating mine, but his he's wishy washy.

  (they have completely shunned me, but still try to be kind to him and our children, blaming me for tearing their poor family member away from jah).

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  Heartbreaker
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  What is your reaction when you see dubs with name badges? Here was mine:

  by SnakesInTheTower in

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  one of the things i really like about being out of the cult is that i no longer have to go to those long, boring district conventions.

  instead, i can do other things with my new family (fiancee and soon to be step son).

  we were out and about sunday, i had taken the day off from work, no point in bothering people with collections on a sunday and a holiday.. we had planned to go to a suburb of st. louis, mo (st. charles) and see some of the vendors on the riverfront in the afternoon and then wait for the fireworks in the evening .

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  I don't understand the need of wearing a badge to a supposedly public event. I have never known other religions to do this when they have their conferences. I would think that doing this would make outsiders feel like outcasts, which is the intended purpose anyway. Other than showing off their exclusivity, it is worthless.
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  We bought land!

  by Aussie Oz in

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  we bought land!.

  some of you might remember a delema i had a couple of months ago over buying a house... and gave lots of great advice.. well, we ended up buying a large block of land (modern developers would cram 8 houses on it) one hour outside the city in a really nice little town of only 250 people.

  the block has an 1860 ruin on it that looks like an old school or church.

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  Girlie

  Congrats to ya!!!!