It does seem odd that a woman who was hit by her husband for 'trying to make a point' is then told that she needs to be more loving. Would being more loving have prevented her from being hit? Leaving would probably work a lot better if your man is hitting you. Odds are it wasn't the first time and wasn't the last time, either. And since the WT rule is 'extreme physical abuse' to allow for separation, poor Selma is just digging a hole big enough for her now-JW husband to shove her into.
But this is nothing new. WT has been teaching a warped view of women for decades now (I'm sure there are still some women being interrogated by elders after being raped, to be sure they haven't 'committed fornication'), so...there you have it.
--sd-7