I agree with what you guys and gals are saying in regards to how screwed up the JW mentality is regarding life and death. It goes without saying that they're twisted in how they view nonbelievers, apostates, and disfellowshipped ones. Being fair though, I'm hesitant to paint all JWs with that brush. This forum is full of people who were former JWs in good standing at one point, and active JWs still in good standing that don't verbalize those negative thoughts. Reflecting on my own thought process, even when I believed all of it hook-line-sinker, I never had feelings of hatred or lack of compassion toward unbelievers, disfellowshipped, or apostates.
Not to get preachy on you guys, but 1 Pet 3:9 comes to mind regarding "not paying evil with evil, or insult with insult." Romans 12:17 states the same and includes "being honorable to all." Some translations render, "do whats right in the eyes of all." Granted, I'm probably NOT the best guy to promote those verses as my attitude towards people is horrible at times as evidenced several times on this forum. However, being that this is a public forum, and one of the more popular forums focusing on JWs, I think we all should be cautious of the feelings we display for the sake of lurkers. Not to mention, some of us probably should do some soul searching if it seems we traded in the dehumanization we had of others while being a JW, only to have the same numbness towards other's plights as an ExJW. The more I'm typing, the more I'm thinking about Jesus thoughts on turning the other cheek, or making peace with one's brother before offering a sacrafice before the altar. Its not enough to do whats right by our actions, but also by our thought process and our feelings. God corrected Cain before he acted on his jealousy and hatred. So it wasn't just his actions, but his heart was crooked. I think we all would do well to meditate on our own feeling and thoughts toward others, especially those who were in the same boat we were in being brainwashed.
By the way, please don't reference this post if I say something vile to any of you on here LOL.