Hi leslie,
Welcome to the board. I can relate to the frustration you have with the Baptists. I wasn't raised in any religion but have been attending Baptist churches (Southern Baptist and Independent Fundamental Baptist) for a while. My wife was 'around the truth' all her life, meaning that she was raised a witness and believed in the religion but is not currently baptized. I started studying with her and attending meetings with them over the last six years of our marraige. I have to admit that I was fascinated with their unique view of the Bible and its teaching. I even liked how they stated that a lot of the traditions of 'christendom' came original from Constantine. I had already learned this in my philosophy class I took while in college. That and the fact that they were right on with the idea that Jesus was not born on 12-25 made me believe that these people are truly on to something. I also like how their meetings were interracial, being in an interracial marraige myself made me appreciate this aspect of them. Also, who can argue with the fact that all of their meetings all over the world went in the same fashion, teaching the same thing everywhere, etc.. They even don't make a big deal out of making their Kingdom Halls look all glamoruous with murials and crosses, etc.. Keeping it simple is something I truly found fascinating. I was beginning to think that perhaps these people really did have the truth.
But something in my mind keep telling me that something wasn't quite right. They would claim that they alone had the truth and dogmatically proclaimed that no other religion had the truth. Something about that did not sit well with me. You see, by the time I started studying, I learned that basically all christian religions were off from one another to a greater or lesser degree and all translations of the Bible were different from one another to a greater or lesser degree. Considering that the christian religion is 2000 years old and has come under the influence of a lot of people over those years, it was difficult for me to accept that any one group had all of the truths about the Bible. Besides, even if the witnesses were right if another group believed similarly to them, their whole basis for them alone having the 'truth' falls apart. I believe this is called the Black Swan problem. The truth is, indeed there are other religions that believe as the witnesses do and some are even more careful about how they apply the Bible than the witnesses are.
Needless to say, when my wife decided to go full throttle into become a witness I found myself trying to determine what the truth really is. What I found was startling. I learned that their translation of the Bible was off a great deal when compared to other accepted translations of the Bible, and in fact, when I compared their new testament to the original greek I learned that their Bible translation was VERY off. Concerning the deity of Jesus Christ especially. I knew then something was very wrong with this religion and upon further research I discovered that they have a rather interesting history of false predictions for Armagheddon and a lot of covering up of their old beliefs.
I implore you to do your research on this religion before you get too deep into it. The witness who you are studying will may try to tell you that Satan is trying to stop you from learning the truth and becoming a jehovah's witness. But since you have been associated with Southern Baptist churches I can assume that you believe in God and want to find the right way to follow Him. The one thing you have to remember is the one thing I realized when I found myself not know what religion is right, your everlasting life is at stake. Best you do what the Bible says and make sure of all things before you dive into this religion, eternity is a long time to be wrong.
For more information, go to http://www.4jehovah.org and http://www.gotquestions.org. Then go to http://www.freeminds.org to learn more about how this religion has hurt so many people. May God bless you and help you discover the real truth about Him.