Same deal in a marriage, two people and God intertwined and pulling in the same direction, that is how it should be :) Chalam, I said exactly that. The response was, "but that is individuals saying that. That is not what churches of Christendom teach. "
I do not plan on getting into the details. It would take me forever to research the pro's and the con's. I do not plan on getting into an extremely lengthy discussion with them about it. I just want to be able to show that their portrayal of what "christendom's relgions" teach is not accurate. I feel like it's what I've learned, but I don't have any backup evidence. Hence, the starting of a redundant thread to sqeaze information out or YOUR brains.