Esmeralda,
I've seen comments like this from several lists I've been on over the years--as others said, don't take it personal. Simon has set up a very good discussion board that's user friendly, and has attracted new and old alike. Sure, when groups are small they take on the small town flavor of everyone knowing the names of the kids and grandchildren. There are benifits of staying small, but it doesn't encourage new blood and fresh ideas. Yeah, larger can be a pain because crap happens, but that's why god created the Delete button on the sixth day. I really enjoy the bigger groups because they tend to challenge me more than the small ones.
I enjoy your postings, and always stop and actually read your posts. Hell, I don't read my own stuff because I recognize quality material, and don't waste time with the rest. You, and many others add quality to this forum--and it doesn't matter if one is old or new to the group.
--JAVA
...counting time at the Coffee Shop