I’m so so very sorry minimus this must be devastating for his wife. The fact you are separated not only from your partner but everyone that can give you comfort is devastating.
They have put him in an induced coma to allow his lungs to rest which must mean ventilation can help him....that at least is good news. His sex weighs against him unfortunately.
Is he on the heavy side at all?
Were they using gloves and strict hand washing? It’s so worrying when we are all isolating yet these tragedies happen. I think we all need to access masks now minimus.