here in the dfw area we've had no rain and 100+ f temps for several weeks.
it looks like we are about to get a bit of relief with some rain!
Seriously, how do you keep cool?
I imagine that if I ever get to live in Texas I'd absolutely get a house with a pool. That way, after a long day at work I just jump in and cool off before retiring for the day.
And David, based on what I heard, you may want to make some preparations in the rare event of an energy black out: http://cbs11tv.com/topstories/local_story_228191125.html
Yourschelbie
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sometimes we all find ourselves in periods of time where we are constantly hit by stress... right now is one of those times for me.
i seem to recall a little string i can pull on a bus to make it stop... now where is that thing for the earth???
If you're not getting the results you need from the expensive doctors you've been seeing, then maybe it's time to move on. You can simply call his/ her office and cancel your upcoming appointments by stating that you are going to pursue a second medical opinion. You have the right to change primary care providers if they aren't being helpful either: I'd check your isurance for in-plan specialists in this field:
Otolaryngologist (ear, nose, and throat specialist)
Otolaryngologists, sometimes referred to as otorhinolaryngologists or ear, nose, and throat (ENT) doctors, are medical doctors who specialize in the diagnosis and treatment of diseases or conditions of the ear, nose, and throat.
Otolaryngologists can prescribe medication and perform surgery for sinus problems, sleep apnea, or to remove tonsils or cancerous growths, for example. Some otolaryngologists also do certain cosmetic procedures to improve appearance.
Otolaryngologists can be board-certified through the Board of Otolaryngology, which is recognized by the American Board of Medical Specialties.
Good Luck. Hopefully you'll find a doctor who will care for your condition so you can sleep better.
YC
i have tried to look back and find a post....but can't!
it was a very good letter written by someone...a woman...and one thing i remember in it was the comparrison of the wts to the hallways of 9/11...like if someone kept leading you out the wrong way....i hope someone remembers...i thought i bookmarked it, but i guess i didn't.
thanks so much for your help!
This DA letter by BlackSwan of Memphis mentions about the WTC in the last few paragraphs:
http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/7/105057/1.ashx
YoursChelbie
over the last few years i have been trying unsucessfully to get my wife out of the org.
we've had a lot of ups & downs, arguments, and miserable times.
well, my wife has finally told me that she will respect my decision to no longer be a jw, and i can also do what i feel is best for our children in this respect.
If your spouse has agreed to disagree with you on the religious aspect of your married lives, then you are one step away from teaching your kids to be free of the Watchtower control.
Immediately begin to explain to your children that the Watchtower condemns things not forbidden in the Bible: Higher education, etc. Tell them you will love them unconditionally no matter what they decide to do. Let them know there are choices in activities on meeting nights. (music lessons, sports practice etc.) They can choose to go the KH or not, but you would rather them not go because they will not gain acceptance, or freedom of thought at the KH. Make it clear to your spouse that she is not to use punishments or threats of the big "A" to make the children feel guilty about not attending the meetings.
As far as making friends and meeting people--volunteer at their school. Get to know the other parents and their classmates. That's a start.
YoursChelbie
i'm afraid i am.
it is in my nature to expect everyone to act in the best interests of everyone else.
i never expect that others will intentionally cause harm to another in a willfull and malisious act.
I had a job right after high school where at the ripe old age of 19, I learned all about office politics by observation.
There is gossip galore there just as in the KH. People will talk about you and anything you say can and will often be used against you.
It's better not to divulge anything you don't want posted on a bulletin board for all to see. This is especially true in the workplace.
As far a trusting others outside of the workplace, I will usually trust until that trust is betrayed. Once that happens, it is just like trying to put broken pieces back to make a crystal vase: It's not the same anymore.
YC
is it important for you to know how many sexual partners your love interest had before you would consider him/her for a long term relationship, leading to marriage?
why would that info be important to you?.
that's a question i don't think i'd ask, or answer.
Believe me that I understand your point. However, the same thing could be said of a gambler or someone else with an ingrained habit I don't consider healthy. If they are going to change their ways that's fine. This change really needs to happen way before I come into the picture. They should change for themselves--not for me.
YC
1. the best parking place is determined by shade instead of distance.
2. hot water now comes out of both taps.
3. you can make sun tea instantly.
By contrast,
You know you’ve been in Minnesota too long when,
1. Weather is 80% of your conversation.
2. Down South you mean Iowa.
3. You have no concept of public transportation.
4. You’ve been to Fort Snelling on a field trip at least once.
5. You know more than one person who has hit a deer.
6. Perkins was one of the few hangout options.
7. You can name two seasons: winter and road repair.
8. You’ve been to the top of the IDS.
9. Nothing gets you madder than seeing a packers sticker on a Minnesota car.
10. You’re a loyal Target shopper.
11. Your idea of a traffic jam is ten cars waiting to pass a tractor on the highway.
12. You drink pop and are proud of it.
13. You think nothing of spending five dollars for fried cheese on a stick.
14. You design your kids Halloween costume to fit over a snowsuit.
15. You know that MAYO is NOT something you put on a sandwich
YC
1. the best parking place is determined by shade instead of distance.
2. hot water now comes out of both taps.
3. you can make sun tea instantly.
1. The best parking place is determined by shade instead of distance.
2. Hot water now comes out of both taps.
3. You can make sun tea instantly.
4. You learn that a seat belt buckle makes a pretty good branding iron.
5. The temperature drops below 95 and you feel a little chilly.
6. The food here isn't overcooked; yours is undercooked.
7. You discover that you can get sunburned through your car window.
8. You actually burn your hand opening the car door.
9. You break into a sweat the instant you step outside at 7:30 a.m.
10. You know that the true value of a parking space is not determined by the distance to the door but by the availability of shade.
11. You realize that asphalt has a liquid state.
12. The birds have to use pot holders to pull worms out of the ground.
13. The potatoes cook underground, so all you have to do is pull one out and add butter, salt, and pepper.
14. Farmers are feeding their chickens crushed ice to keep them from laying hard-boiled eggs.
15. The cows are giving evaporated milk.
16. Fixnto" is one word - - and probably one of the most used words in the true Texan's vocabulary.
17. Remember, "y'all" is singular, "all y'all" is plural, and "all y'all's" is plural possessive.
18. A Mercedes Benz is not a status symbol. A Ford F350 4x4 is.
19. Locals don't order a bottle of pop or a can of soda. Down here it's called Coke
20. You are 100% Texan if you have ever had this conversation:
"You wanna Coke?"
"Yeah."
"What kind?"
"Dr. Pepper."
is it important for you to know how many sexual partners your love interest had before you would consider him/her for a long term relationship, leading to marriage?
why would that info be important to you?.
that's a question i don't think i'd ask, or answer.
Is it important for you to know how many sexual partners your love interest had before you would consider him/her for a long term relationship, leading to marriage? Why would that info be important to you?
Would a guy be able to be in a committed relationship with me if he has a history of having numerous sex partners? I'd be doubtful. Simply put, if he's had sex with people he barely knows without taking the time to establish a relationship over the course of several months at least, then he actually is just after sex. If someone spends time engaging in risky behavior with the possibility for unwanted pregnancies and STD’s just for fun, well that’s just plain stupid IMHO.
I wouldn’t want to waste my time with a guy who hops from one meaningless fling after another. They aren’t people I’d have anything in common with if I wanted a meaningful long-term relationship.
YC
when you look back at it, what got you to slow down?
?
It slowed down for me after I had my first child. Seeing the Watchtower cult through the eyes of a child changed my perspective a lot. I could not imagine myself being a little child and sitting through all five boring meetings. I couldn't see myself telling my child not to go to college or participate in regular school activities. I sure as heck wasn't about to let anyone tell me I couldn't talk to my own flesh and blood (if they were to leave the cult after getting DA or DF for example.) Happily I made my exit before they were out of elementary school. I'm so glad to be outta there!
Not having been in the cult until my late teens, I didn't get a real feel for what it would be like for a young child until I had my own. My children helped me to see the truth about "the truth."
YoursChelbie
