Well said, all the legalism is robbing JW's from growing
into mature adults who can make clear headed decisions.
Without the aid of referencing the WT articles on any matter
they're at a loss as to what to do.
On many issues there's this unclear leading in the WT that
leaves JWs feeling the brunt of making a decision out of conscience.
I know, I was like that too, if an article isn't clear which way to go
on something, then a JW feels that uneasy feeling, born from laziness
of mind that prevents them from acting on something because of
not having been clearly told what to do.
The WT has made mental slaves of their followers and when they
want to shirk responsibility they then dump the decision of conscience
on the publisher. The publisher, not having been used to exercising
his true conscience, but trained to have a WT disposition to follow
what he's told, now has to decide, and his indecision reveals a
moral ineptitude.
I had that feeling when the fractions explanations came along.
Not really understanding any of the disonance of accepting fractions
I went with not accepting anything on my blood card form.
It would be later, much later, finding the chapter on blood by
Ray Franz that really made open my eyes and start to reason
on the blood issue. Anyway that's one example, that comes to
mind, thinking back on this issue of being unprepared, and
immature about life's problems and what to do about them.
The WT doesn't have all the right answers, as a matter of fact
they have most of the wrong answers on just about anything.