I find that some people who leave are still a little sensitive to criticism of the organisation and are not ready to empathise with those who have had a bad experience.
I appreciate that elders are conditioned to behave in a certain way and members are controled so I do not feel bitter towards individuals. I am less forgiving of those who control the congregations and publish the hate and contempt of others in the magazines. It would be hard to have a neutral point of view when you see the harm they do.