Born ins like us are dealt some pretty shitty cards.
You don't expect you parents to be liars. You trust them.
You go to school and have to be different, stick out like a sore thumb. You start to build a persecution complex from a very young age.
You invest thousands of hours in meetings, FS, assemblies, over the first 20 years of your life. If you want sex, you get married real young, and have hopefully have some real fun for a few years. If kids come along quickly, its stressful as hell as you try to make ends meet with a HS diploma.
Its a wonder any born in escapes.