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  Im disfellowshipped

  by newcomer1982 in

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  think it was announced yesterday that im disfellowshipped.

  will these feelings of guilt and panic ever go away?

  my head is so messed up.

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  Adiva

  I don't think I could top the advice you've already been given. Everyone is right. It's painful but, you get through it. And there is life, wonderful, wonderful life after the watchtower. Such people you'll now be able to be friends with; people who won't judge you and love and accept you for the awesome individual you really are. Your son will grow up with just the usual stuff kids have to deal with growing up, without the unusual amount of guilt jw kids are forced to swallow.

  Give yourself sometime. Love yourself!

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  OMG shunning story

  by man in black in

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  my wife and i went to fedex / kinko's this afternoon and ran into a girl who was df'ed several years ago, (her parents are quite the rabid jw's.).

  they have two daughters, and the younger one recently got married at the kh.. the older one who we were talking to proceeded to tell us that she decided to attend her younger sisters wedding ceremony which was fine despite the fact that nobody talked to her.. but after the wedding she was basically ushered out of the hall.

  she was not allowed to participate in any pictures, or allowed to speak to the new couple.

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  When my JW brother got married he sent an invitation to our home addressed to my daughter and my niece, completely ignoring me and the hubby.

  The sister he married divorced (non scriptural) his lazy ass a few years ago. If I'd been able to talk with her before the wedding, I'd a told her not to marry him.

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  According to my parents your all hitchhikers!

  by Snowboarder in

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  well, i moved out of home to study more and live a "evil" life as my parents call it of going to church to light a candle!

  i did this twice in the last month and i'm supporting a whore!

  and by whore i mean you know babalyon the great!and all apostates are hitchhikers!

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  Adiva

  AGuest put it beautifully. I also follow your blog and am happy to see that you are finding your own way. Stay strong and surround yourself with positive minded people who share your passions. See you on-line.

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  When You Left The Organization Were False Rumors Being Circulated About You?

  by minimus in

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  i heard i was "too interested in making money" and that i was letting "worldly pleasures" get in the way.. did you ever hear anything about your departure??

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  I got df'd with 3 other 'sisters' so of course the rumor was that we were lesbians. LMAO. Hadn't thought about that in years.

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  Dear Bethel, the new YPA book... not much good

  by Aussie Oz in

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  dear brooklyn, i realize you wont make reply but we all know you have your spys, so.... i just read the chapters on.

  why not just end it all?.

  how can i protect myself from sexual pretators?.

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  Adiva

  Whoa Clarity:

  You've said a mouthfull. What do our children reallty need? Us, their parents to hold them, support them, listen to them. Not some lame assed book writtenand/or rehashed by a bunch of old guys that don't have children.

  Just sayin'.

  Adiva
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  Jethro Tull / Ian Anderson - Your Favorite Songs ? You-tubes Welcome !

  by flipper in

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  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ws6fstg99au&feature=related.

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  I think just about any song on 'Passion Play'.

  That album has something for everyone but the songs are set up in the manner of Locomotive Breath.

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  Led Zeppelin/ Robert Plant / Jimmy Page -Fav. Songs ? U-Tubes Welcome !

  by flipper in

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  http://www.bing.com/videos/watch/video/babe-im-gonna-leave-you-jimmy-page-and-robert-plant-live-in/dce5e2fd2b694a80d19bdce5e2fd2b694a80d19b-960291931640?q=you-tube+robert+plant+babe+i'm+gonna+leave+you&form=vire6.

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  Fresh Prince: I was totally waiting for someone to finally post that song otherwise I was gonna do it.

  Robert Plant looks ahhhmazing. (I just wish I knew what the song was about.)

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  Yet another newbie....

  by breakfast of champions in

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  been lurking since last august and figured i'd sign up.

  history (although i feel like i've read this experience 100 times on.

  this board already):.

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  Welcome BOC. You're in great company here.

  Your story is amazing and inspiring. Thank you for sharing.

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  Another Elder

  by burnedout in

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  Adiva

  When you said you sat down and really saw your family, 'the scales' feel from your eyes. You'll never be the same again. And I echo jgnats' comment: your wife is really going enjoy the new you. Your children are going to really benefit from having their dads' undivided attention.

  Welcome. The best is yet to come.

  Adiva
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  What Song Best Describes Where Your Life is Right Now?

  by Morbidzbaby in

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  self-explanatory title lol.

  just curious what songs each of us identify with when it comes to where we are in life.

  i think music is a great form of expression and sometimes someone else can sing it better than you can say it, know what i mean?

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  I'm pretty partial to House Music because it's all about being positive. This song never fails to make me happy that I'm no longer in the borg.

  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nh0xeeMAovY

  Adiva