A lot of people just don't fit in with the Jws. Myself and mrs hoser certainly don't.
Ohiamfree, you think too much and only allow yourself to be treated with dignity. That is why they are puzzled by your actions.
A funny thing happened to me the other day. I was at the hardware store buying a gallon of paint and a "brother" from my old hall was there. He totally ignored me as if I didn't exist. There must be some wild rumors going about that I'm bad association or maybe I've been marked and haven't found out about it yet.
The probabable reason he shunned me is because I have started to respect myself and Jws can't handle that.