Shame, shame, shame they're playing the shame game. They will try to make you feel like a piece of shit in the hopes that you will conform.
Mrs hoser and I have a problem with materialism Or so that's what I hear through the grapevine. Not one of the coward elders ever said anything direct to us about it but I did sit and listen to a public talk directed at us although he didn't mention names he described our business to a t.
Then I was assigned a talk based on Matt 6 about keeping your eye simple. I looked up some non jw info and aced the talk and threw it right back in their face.
Soon after I resigned from the school. That simplifies my life a lot.