Good question Sally,
At my mom's funeral earlier this year, I distinctly heard my sister tell Aunt Ruth...
"Well, now that we aren't tied down anymore, we will come visit you." (Paraphrased)
I knew it was a lie. To be honest... I don't know why they won't go visit... or even call her.
Aunt Ruth is a dear sweet old lady who is 92 years old. She is my dad's sister. She is Mormon... but that shouldn't prevent one from visiting a relative... should it?
I figure that they don't go visit because they are just too wrapped up in their own pitiful little lives to take the time to do so.
We all do that to a certain extent, I suppose.
Oh. But the next time I saw Aunt Ruth... I told HER about my conversation with my sister, and asked her if she had gotten any phone call from her. "No... I haven't." was her reply. I didn't think my sister would call.
My sister is only good at making excuses. Next funeral... my aunt Ruth's, perhaps... "Well cousin... I'm so sorry that we didn't get to visit aunt Ruth... but now we can come visit you." *lie detector on full tilt*
Regards,
Jim TX