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  Generation teaching - conversation I just had with my dad.

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  so, went to the dc 2 days this weekend.

  still have lots of family in and had to put in a cameo for family who had parts on the program and drama.

  i left after the drama today and just spoke with my dad who is inactive and supposedly enlightened about all things jw.

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  My wife wasn't even aware of the 1995 change.
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  Definitely getting DF'ed now

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  came out as an apostate to the wife, came out about the depression, anger at being second fiddle in her life to 9 old guys in brooklyn, came out about having turned atheist, came out about the indiscrections, the tobacco use, everything.. fuck.

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  why would I avoid the DF?
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  Definitely getting DF'ed now

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  came out as an apostate to the wife, came out about the depression, anger at being second fiddle in her life to 9 old guys in brooklyn, came out about having turned atheist, came out about the indiscrections, the tobacco use, everything.. fuck.

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  I haven't beleived for years, been faking it. I am leaning towards what you are saying, hotchocolate. I think in the end, the religion is a huge thing that won't go away and that i am betting off taking up the ass in the short term to save my kids' future. If they, in the end, decide when they are older to become a JW knowing all the facts, I would support that. I will support their mom financially and supprt her authority when she has them and just be their dad that they can trust to talk to.
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  came out as an apostate to the wife, came out about the depression, anger at being second fiddle in her life to 9 old guys in brooklyn, came out about having turned atheist, came out about the indiscrections, the tobacco use, everything.. fuck.

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  notverylikely

  Well, she's leaning towards scriptural divorce. Will wait a few days to decide.
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  Definitely getting DF'ed now

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  came out as an apostate to the wife, came out about the depression, anger at being second fiddle in her life to 9 old guys in brooklyn, came out about having turned atheist, came out about the indiscrections, the tobacco use, everything.. fuck.

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  LOL, do you really believe the fact that you raised your kids as JWs gives you no responsibility to at least consider the consequences of that?

  No, you just seem to be a loudmouth jackass.
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  came out as an apostate to the wife, came out about the depression, anger at being second fiddle in her life to 9 old guys in brooklyn, came out about having turned atheist, came out about the indiscrections, the tobacco use, everything.. fuck.

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  Please, don't come back crying, like so many here, that your kids will not visit you or will not speak to you. If you do not choose fading that is your right but remember they also have a right to do as you brought them up to do in their religion.

  You and your wife raised little JWs. Just because you choose to leave it does not mean they will like little robots and follow you.

  Why don't you go outside and play a game of hide and go fuck yourself?
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  by notverylikely in

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  came out as an apostate to the wife, came out about the depression, anger at being second fiddle in her life to 9 old guys in brooklyn, came out about having turned atheist, came out about the indiscrections, the tobacco use, everything.. fuck.

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  SUe for custody like right now then kick the b word to the curb...

  Don't call her that. She's in a cult and hurt. Lots of us were there once. I don't agree with her, but I understand where she is coming from.
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  need info on...

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  i am putting together some things to bring up when the elders talk me (i got ratted out for being apostate), so i need some info on the following.

  i am putting some of this together myself, you you folks here seem that have that stuff handy .... - list of babylonian kings on the cd (which articles) to show 587 is the date the list gets you to.

  - article that the wt wrote saying that if you study the bible on your own you will turn apostate (i seem to recall it, but not sure if it exists).

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  jwfacts, see my other thread. i probably COULD get out of it if i wanted to, but not sure i want to. depends on how everything turns out.
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  came out as an apostate to the wife, came out about the depression, anger at being second fiddle in her life to 9 old guys in brooklyn, came out about having turned atheist, came out about the indiscrections, the tobacco use, everything.. fuck.

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  yknot....can't do it. i can't go pretend in front of them. fuck them and their bullshit fake ecclesiastical court.

  With regards to the kids, if they choose when they are 18 to be JW's with all of the facts laid before them, i won't stop them. i won't oppose her taking them. but i will not let them go without know all sides of the story.
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  Definitely getting DF'ed now

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  came out as an apostate to the wife, came out about the depression, anger at being second fiddle in her life to 9 old guys in brooklyn, came out about having turned atheist, came out about the indiscrections, the tobacco use, everything.. fuck.

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  The children is where you need to stop and think. No-one can tell you what to do on that. Very tough facing the thought of seeing them less often. But be realistic. If you work full time, you probably only spend the last hour of the day with them? On the weekends, you waste Saturday and Sunday mornings dedicated to the Watchtower Society. Imagine the quality time you could have if you alone had them over every second weekend. And then you would be free to stand up without hypocrisy and gently teach them the real truth. The thought of less custody is scary, but the benefits make it worth considering.

  This is exactly what I am thinking at this point. Don't forget every other holiday, though.