This....
I was single for a decade before I married him and pretty much have my little routine set the way I like it. Sometimes he tries to train me and I just stare at him. He'll say, "You're just going to do what you want anyway, aren't you?" Well, yeah.
...doesn't match this.
The difference is this: everything I do, I consider the impact on the entire family before I make a decision. Everything he does, he just thinks "Me want this" and goes ahead.
Nice way to characterize YOU as the awesome one and him as the selfish jerk. I think this really illustrates that at least two people in that relationship have poor decision making skills.